Two years and you’re only trying to mend your friendship as he gets married? Let this one go, you’re both clearly in different places now.

Oloni

Rapping his music to you? Has he lost the plot? Excuse me for laughing, but lol! I don’t think past sexual partners have told him that it’s a huge turn off. “Dirty bitch” I’ve heard of before, but rapping?? That’s a new one.

You need to tell him to cut it out, if you don’t like what he’s saying, literally say “Can you not do that and perhaps do this instead?” (let the “this” be, kissing your neck) – If he doesn’t listen, please don’t sleep with him again.

Oloni

Hey love, it’s normal for your libido to change continuously, same with your partner. The good thing is you’ve communicated with him by asking if he’s sexually satisfied. You also got a positive answer, so you have nothing to worry about.

Oloni

You need to take action immediately, it’s common knowledge that STI’s can be passed when you have unprotected sex. It’d be selfish and sexually irresponsible if you don’t let both people know. What you can do is give both their numbers to a sexual health nurse, who can send a message anonymously on your behalf.

In fututre when you want to have casual sex, be sure to update your sexual health check ups every 3 months and ask all your partners about their last visit.

Oloni

It’s annoying, but it happens more often than you think. It’s seen as an easier way for some when they’re unable to communicate they’re no longer interested.

Oloni