Rapping his music to you? Has he lost the plot? Excuse me for laughing, but lol! I don’t think past sexual partners have told him that it’s a huge turn off. “Dirty bitch” I’ve heard of before, but rapping?? That’s a new one.

You need to tell him to cut it out, if you don’t like what he’s saying, literally say “Can you not do that and perhaps do this instead?” (let the “this” be, kissing your neck) – If he doesn’t listen, please don’t sleep with him again.

Oloni

Hey love, it’s normal for your libido to change continuously, same with your partner. The good thing is you’ve communicated with him by asking if he’s sexually satisfied. You also got a positive answer, so you have nothing to worry about.

Oloni

You need to take action immediately, it’s common knowledge that STI’s can be passed when you have unprotected sex. It’d be selfish and sexually irresponsible if you don’t let both people know. What you can do is give both their numbers to a sexual health nurse, who can send a message anonymously on your behalf.

In fututre when you want to have casual sex, be sure to update your sexual health check ups every 3 months and ask all your partners about their last visit.

Oloni

It’s annoying, but it happens more often than you think. It’s seen as an easier way for some when they’re unable to communicate they’re no longer interested.

Oloni

You’re not in the wrong, your male bestie is trash and needs to stay in his lane. It’s extremely inappropriate. The fact that he’s already said he likes you is more of a reason as to why you desperately need to end your friendship with him.

It bothers me for you that he feels so entitled to spending the night, after your first response. He has to go. You don’t need friends like him around. How would you honestly feel if your boyfriend was in this position?

Oloni

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