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If your ex of a year, whom you’ve been trying to work things out with since July puts a snap saying sick of the bullshit, everything lock off …you msg him asking what’s up and he doesn’t reply, is he referring to me? It’s been 2 weeks. I haven’t tried to contact since and neither has he. Was he referring to me and is it officially over?
5. December 2017
My boyfriend chats up girls everytime but justifies it by saying he isn’t cheating cos he doesn’t talk to them in person and might never meet them but they are sexual chats about how he finds them attractive
5. December 2017
I was in a situationship with this guy and it ended badly he removed me off all social media etc and now we’re done. However I’ve recently found out I’m pregnant and it’s definitely his. I don’t think I’m going to Keep it though because I’m 19 and at uni. I really don’t know how to tell him or if I even should at all. Would it be bad if I decided to get rid of it without telling him?
5. December 2017
If possible call him on withheld and let him know if you really want to get through to him, but only if you’re comfortable doing so. Please make sure you also get the right support from professionals too.
Oloni
I’ve been texting with a guy for about 9 weeks. He makes a lot of effort to talk to me over phone/text usually but he’s always too ‘busy’ to meet. The other day he said he ‘doesn’t mind’ meeting during the week but does this sound like he actually wants to, or he’s just agreeing to make me feel better?
5. December 2017
9 weeks of texting? Are you his penpal? If he wanted to see you, he’d suggest it and it would have been soon.
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So I found out my boyfriend had dating app accounts when we first started dating, I gave him the benefit of the doubt and just told him to delete them since he had been single for a while. Like 7 months later, my single friend was browsing on plenty of fish and sends me a screenshot of my mans profile 🙂 how do I bring it up?
5. December 2017
Say “My friends saw you on plenty of fish”?
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