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Hi Oloni, I’ve just got into my first serious relationship and am not very sexual experienced. I want to pleasure my man, and do more foreplay, but my head game is weak lol. Any tips on how to improve? (ps I love you and what you do for the gyaldem!!!!) 26. November 2017

Aww thanks!

Just ask him to guide you and ask how he likes his penis being pleasured. Make sure to make his penis as moist as possible with saliva and to use both hands when sucking.

Oloni

Hi oloni, is it okay to lips a guy you’ve been texting with for 2 months on the first date ? 26. November 2017

Yes.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I’m 22 and I’ve just graduated Uni. I’m thinking of moving in with my 28 year old boyfriend of 4 years. However, I’m Nigerian, and in our culture, we’re expected to get married before moving in with man/woman. I don’t know if my parents will approve of me moving in with him. But if not, should I accept that I am an adult and can move in with him, or respect my parents and my culture and wait till we’re married? 26. November 2017

It’s all up to you, you’re an adult and if you want to move out on your own, with a friend or a lover that’s completely your choice.

Have a think about it and do what you feels right.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I have a high and constant level of sexual arousal and my partner just can’t keep up with me. How can I turn it off or down? It’s such a distraction and I’ve thought about sex toys but I’d hate for him to find it and feel emasculated, he has a old school mind set (won’t even go down on me). plus masturbation just doesn’t get me off. I almost feel like I need therapy, I feel like a nymphomaniac in terms of desire. it’s actually affecting me getting on with my day to day life. 26. November 2017

Well, if he’s no satisfying you sexually you might need to think about this relationship carefully. Sex toys aren’t about his ego, it’s about your pleasure. Have a conversation with him and address how you’ve been feeling.

You sound apologetic over your natural desires and you shouldn’t.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I’m 22 years old and I’ve never had a boyfriend and I’ve only been 1 situationship. I want a GOOD friend with benefits because relationships these days are overrated. I haven’t had sex since February and I’m feeling more erotically charged since then. Any advice? 26. November 2017

Sex is literally everywhere. Join a dating app, get to know someone and over time let them know what you’re interested in. Get tested too and please always use condoms and ask about their last sexual health check.

Oloni

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