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Have a scroll on the last two pages, I gave someone similar to your position some advice on what to do. Oloni Heya it sounds like he’s clearly dealing with some misplaced anger and starting to resent the family you both created. Your ex is struggling to cope with the divorce and the infidelity, however it’s not an excuse, not even close to one. I think you should find a way to send him a message about what you’ve noticed as this could really begin to affect your children and ultimately, they come first. He may not feel it now, but he’ll regret not being there properly, especially if this is due to what happened between the two of you. Visiting his kids shouldn’t be seen as a chore and hopefully he’ll realise this. I think you just have to be patient, this isn’t something you can force on him. It really depends on age and your occupation in my opinion. I wouldn’t expect my 20 year old male readers to finance a 2 week trip away for him and his girlfriend of 6 months. Olonio Tell him about it, express that it’s low key getting to you. Oloni Two years and you’re only trying to mend your friendship as he gets married? Let this one go, you’re both clearly in different places now. Oloni
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