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I was seeing this guy everything was fine. We went out one day and I haven’t heard from his since. It’s been two weeks, I sent a text (a sexual one) thinking it would get his attention but he ignored. He’s been watching my social media videos etc. Do I message to see if something is wrong with him and if he is ok or do I just leave if ?
19. December 2017
He’s alive and well. He’s also not interested, move on.
Oloni
Hi girl, whenever i try and talk to my bf about issues about our relationship he tells me i’m being moany. But i feel like i only bring up things to him when it’s a genuine issue. what should i do? am I being a nag?
18. December 2017
If he’s dismissing you whilst you’re trying to communicate, he has to go. Dump him.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, I have just recently gotten married, I found out a couple of months later that my husband had been cheating on me the year we were engaged with his “best friend” who at the time was also engaged to someone else, since I found out and he’s told me everything he’s cut off ties with her. They had also sexted a couple of times when we were on our honeymoon, he swears other than that nothing’s happened since we got married. She is now also married but constantly tweeting about our personal issues he’s obviously told her when they were “friends”, she obviously denied they had had an affair to save face with her husband even though I had proof. I still just feel like she’s constantly trying to ruin our marriage and get in the way. I’m just really struggling to move past this and get on with my life…. Help please
18. December 2017
Ah sis, she’s not the one trying to constantly ruin your marriage, the person who couldn’t keep their dick in their pants is. Yes, she’s a mess, I agree. But your attention should be with the person who got down on one knee and proposed to you. Are you really sure this is someone you want to continue to spend the rest of your life with? You’ve only been married for a short space of time and he’s been unable to stick to the vows you made, I think you should both see a mariage counsellor and have a deep think about this commitment.
Hey girl , Please how do you protect yourself from a partner that has herpes. I’ve chosen to stay with him. Thanks sis
18. December 2017
Heya, I think it’d be a great idea if you both made a visit to a sexual health clinic for more professional advice. However, I would say it’d be wise to ALWAYS use protection during any sort of intimacy, so this goes for sex that involves vaginal peneteration/anal sex as well as, oral sex. You’re also NEVER supposed to have sex during a break out (even with a condom), so it’s important he informs you about this. You can read more about herpes here: https://simplyoloni.com/usher-herpes-and-everything-you-should-know-about-the-virus/
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