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Hi Oloni, a year or 2 before I met my current boyfriend, my bestfriend and him used to talk. However, nothing really happened between them because there was no connection there and obviously I knew of this because me and the girl are good friends. Recently, me and boyfriend got together and usually my friend is really supportive and listens when I talk about guys but when it comes to him I feel like she acts weird. It’s almost become awkward between us, like I can’t really mention him coz when I do she switches the convo. I have addressed this with her and she said that there was no issue but I just can’t seem to understand why there is this awkwardness when there is no need. She has a boyfriend who she is very happy with so to me this makes no sense. I don’t know what to do cos I feel as though a rift is forming in our friendship and I don’t understand why. What should I do?
1. August 2015
She doesn’t like the fact you’re with someone who was a former interest of hers. I mean she’ll mouth out the words ‘I’m happy for you two’ but in reality she’s not okay with it. Hence why it’s awkward. There isn’t much you can do, but look for other friends to talk to if you ever need to ..till things eventually change.
Hey, I haven’t spoken to my ex for about 2 years now he even has a baby,but I’ve been thinking about him for a while,il thinking to add him back on Instagram just to ask how he is,nothing more,what do you think?
1. August 2015
Please don’t.
Hey Oloni, I’ve been with my boyfriend for awhile but recently our conversations have slowly been decreasing. When we do talk there’s loads of awkward silence, before we used to talk everyday now we talk once a week and it’s brief. I’ve tried to talk about it but now I feel there’s no point. I love him loads but I don’t know what to do now. Whether to try work it out or just leave
1. August 2015
How long are you spending on the phone for awkward silences to happen? Try talking about it again and ask for his opinion. Is it just the phone calls or is there more?
Hey Oloni I just want to know what are the signs that a guy actually likes you
1. August 2015
He picks up the phone, he asks to meet up for a date or even just as friends. His consistency with the things I’ve just mentioned.
Can you try an answer my question pls, what’s the point in people writing the question if you don’t answer it
1. August 2015
As I explain very often. It is PHYSICALLY impossible to answer all questions. Do you want an immediate response? See the new Relationship Coaching service above. It’s that simple.
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