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It sounds like he’s taking your presence for granted. Speak up, talk to him and let him know how you feel. Once you have spoken give it a few weeks and see if things change. Hopefully the discussion you have will allow his actions to match his words. Another thing? Unless you’re AT LEAST engaged you really shouldn’t be living together. It’s not always the best ideas for couples who aren’t at that level of commitment. It creates situations like this. Try making sure you get their number also and practice dating. Make dating a hobby, and make sure you’re try your best to go to different laces to meet new men. If you want more guidance then see my relationship coaching packages. HERE I’m really glad to hear that. The next one is called The Love You Deserve. Tickets have just been released so get yours here: http://simplyoloni.com/the-love-you-deserve-webinar/ There are usually signs. Here’s an article I wrote about it. http://simplyoloni.com/6-signs-that-hes-cheating-on-you/ This must be very difficult for her, so remember it’s not you..but your girlfriend who is going through this. I’m sure you have an idea of how torn she must feel about this condition. The only thing you can do is be supportive. There is no other solution unless this reason is enough for you to leave her. People have conditions all the time, but it’s things like this that show how strong a relationship is. Your family are wrong, she shouldn’t have to shave it if she loves you as its not that simple. You need to think about this properly and decide if you are still able to commit to her through all of this.


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