Hi Oloni, my boyfriend and i have been together for a year, and I recently found out he’s with someone else as well. I spoke to him and he promised to do something about but he later said he doesn’t know how to because she has introduced him to her family and some whole sob story. I do like him, even love him. What should I do?
8. August 2015
Leave him. If he does break up with you his has been disloyal. Know your worth.
Is Dating or dealing with a guy age 19 wrong as I’m 21Specially when it could lead to something
8. August 2015
I’m currently with a partner for 5 months and she’s great, however I keep thinking of a past partner who came back into contact with me and I think I may still have feelings for that girl … What should I do?
8. August 2015
Figure out why you’re thinking about the past. Did you truly move on before you entered something new?
I recently got back in touch with my ex after 2 months of being together to ask him whether he wanted the stuff back he gave me because obviously I don’t want them and I don’t want to look as though I’m a golddigga or something. He got me an iPhone, an mk bag and an Armani purse. As nice as they are and I appreciated him getting them for me I just don’t think I can keep them cos I’ll be forever reminded of him. He told me I should keep them and not waste such valuable items by throwing them away or he suggested that I give them to my friends but let’s be honest I’m not going to do that. I joked and said I would give it to a homeless person and he was like fine and I told him to delete my number as I won’t be using this phone anymore. He’s like if your not using this phone then give it to me cos his phone was broken in which I replied ok. Then I waited and I got no reply? So now I’m confused does he want it or not? He read the message and has been online but didn’t bother replying back to me so what should I do?! Is he enjoying me chasing after him because not once in these 2 months did he bother messaging me and I’m not expecting him too. My friend told me to leave it as it’s obvious that he doesn’t want the phone that much
8. August 2015
If you’re not using the phone plus the other items that was given as gifts all you have to do is place it in a box and place it in a storage. You didnt need to tell him your plans with it. It just seems like you were being petty & wanted a reaction. If he hasn’t messaged you back about the phone it’s because he doesn’t want it.
The other week I noticed someone who is my ex’s friend had followed me on Twitter. I wasn’t sure whether it was her or not the picture looked exactly like her and she had the same name as her Instagram. He has posted a picture with her before this is how I know. I randomly decided to go on my followers list and it seems she had been following me for quite a bit. Did he tell her to stalk me or was it him? It all seemed a bit dodgy to me. I went onto her profile and she seemed to have followed a lot of spam accounts and then the only real person she followed was me and this raised my suspicion even more. She only made the account in July and tweeted a lot to make it look like she used the account. I then followed her back just to keep an eye and later on when I came back to the account it had been suspended? It was all a bit weird to me.
8. August 2015
I don’t get what you’re asking. If you have a problem with it, block her.
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