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Hey oloni . So i met somebody and he decided to make me his girlfriend after 1 month of dating and I agreed . I love his personality and the way we click , personally I would say that I haven’t felt the same about anyone else however one issue is that he is a Christian and I’m a Muslim and although we try to brush the issue to one side , I feel like it’s a deal breaker for him but he does want me to know . What do think I should do ?
11. August 2015
If you feel like it’s a deal breaker, then talk about it with him. Some relationships do not work when the individuals have different beliefs, some do.
‘Emotional cheating’ is a subjective term. How would you, personally, define it? And when do you think a man or a woman should feel like they are being emotional cheated on?
11. August 2015
When you give yourself emotionally to someone else outside of your relationship, you’re cheating emotionally.
Hi Oloni. Really love your site. Just wondering how I can go about meeting someone new. Was in a relationship for a few years but it wasn’t working out and now I don’t know how to get out there and Tinder sucks lol
11. August 2015
Make dating your relationship status and put yourself out there. Go to new places, meet new people.
Hey oloni! I have kids with a guy who also has other children. There are 3 of us who have kids for him but we don’t really get along. We don’t hate each other but no one talks to each other neither wants to talk. Is it weird if I have the urge to contact them and try and have some sort of relationship as our kids add siblings? Or do I leave that to their dad to sort out? I come from a split family and my mother was cool with my half sister’s mother. Not friends but they could talk on the phone and not have issues.
9. August 2015
I think its healthy if you try to create a civilised relationship with the other ladies, do it, but discuss with the father of your child first.
Hi Oloni, I met this guy on tumblr about two years ago he’s 26 and I’m 18. He lives in Germany so I’ve never met him we act like we’re in a real relationship but we’ve only skyped once because he’s insecure of his appearance since the car accident he had a year ago. Since then he doesn’t send me pictures of him. We send each other gifts too. Recently I’ve been feeling like I want to give up on this relationship because it seems to be at a stand still. My friends do not understand because I find it embarrassing to have an online felt with a stranger what do I do?
8. August 2015
It sounds like the relationship you have right now is an online fantasy. You both enjoy knowing that you care about each other . The fact that you’ve built a bond over two years does so. But at some point you’re going to have to ask yourself, if you see things going anywhere. If you can’t do basic things after two years, how will a real relationship work? There more to a real relationship than sending gifts to each other and messaging, you have to build other sorts of connections and not one that can be made online solely.
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