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Hi Oloni, my boyfriend has “provocative women” on his snapchat… Like ones he doesn’t even know, but they do nude snaps and stuff. I’ve told him I don’t like it and he deleted them, but now they’re back. What should I do? Am I overreacting?
4. August 2015
Talk to him about it, if he deleted it the first time because of how you expressed your feelings on the matter, then why are they back? He’s being disrespectful about your wishes.
Hey Oloni, I just recently ended things with my girlfriend over distance issues but before that she wanted me to disvirgin her but I couldn’t cuz I feel ashamed about the size of my *thing* and as such even in past relationships, I always avoid sex cuz I don’t know if I can satisfy a girl properly and just feel terrible about myself. I also can’t confine in anyone cuz quite frankly its embarrassing but the whole thing has been eating me up.
4. August 2015
You shouldn’t feel ashamed of the size of your penis. As long as you know HOW to use it and make the experience pleasurable. Some guys have the dick the size of the empire state and have no clue on how to use it.
Hi oloni, congrats on the new success of being featured in another mag, i am currently in a relationship, everything is going great, my partner has asked me to move into his flat as I spend majority time there anyways, however for some months now he hasn’t spent as much “down” time with me as he used to, I see him in the mornings before he leaves maybe for 10 mins during the day and then when he comes home when either one of/ or both of us are extremely tired or he’s getting ready to go back out.. Now when I’m away from him he will message saying how attached he is, how he wants me by his side, but his actions are proving otherwise it’s almost like he doesn’t even want to spend the day with me anymore, anytime he gets some “free” time it’s like he has to find absolutely anything else to do then be with me.. I love him and I have no doubt he loves me but I don’t think I can go on like this? Am I overreacting ? What should I do? Please help.
4. August 2015
It sounds like he’s taking your presence for granted. Speak up, talk to him and let him know how you feel. Once you have spoken give it a few weeks and see if things change. Hopefully the discussion you have will allow his actions to match his words. Another thing? Unless you’re AT LEAST engaged you really shouldn’t be living together. It’s not always the best ideas for couples who aren’t at that level of commitment. It creates situations like this.
Hi Oloni, I’m a 22yo F and I’d like to date properly and eventually settle down with someone. I’m not closed off towards dating, but the problem is that I meet and attract guys who ask for my number and such, but oftentimes they don’t actually text or call and if they do, things burn out before we get to dating, and I feel like dating is the fun part of being single and I
4. August 2015
Try making sure you get their number also and practice dating. Make dating a hobby, and make sure you’re try your best to go to different laces to meet new men. If you want more guidance then see my relationship coaching packages. HERE
When is your next webinar? Your last one taught me so much on dating. I’ve even recently started seeing someone. Thanks Oloni
4. August 2015
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