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Hi Oloni, please help, my friend is in a bad relationship. Her boyfriend ignores her for weeks, baitly cheats on her, has pictures and snaps with other girls constantly and she keeps going back to him. I’ve tried to be the supportive, non-bitter friend by listening, advising her but not being forceful with my idea that she should end things but it’s got ridiculous. He will be holding girls in his snap then if she says something he dumps her for moaning too much, I cheer her up, wipe her tears, try and give her strength to be without him and 2 days later she’s back with him. What do I do? Do I continue to be a supportive friend or do I shake her and tell her he’s cheating on her and she needs to get some divinity and stay away. The boy treats her like shit and I’m so fed up with it. Please help
8. August 2015
You have to let her sort out her own relationship. However if you do not want to be involved when things go pear shaped you have to explain this also. So many women are in codependent relationships and use their friends to fall back on repeatedly. It’s unfair and not your responsibility. Let her know that you will continue being there, but not like this. You can’t and wont be the person who she can discuss her relationship woes with any longer.
Hi Oloni, my boyfriend and i have been together for a year, and I recently found out he’s with someone else as well. I spoke to him and he promised to do something about but he later said he doesn’t know how to because she has introduced him to her family and some whole sob story. I do like him, even love him. What should I do?
8. August 2015
Leave him. If he does break up with you his has been disloyal. Know your worth.
Is Dating or dealing with a guy age 19 wrong as I’m 21Specially when it could lead to something
8. August 2015
Not at all.
I’m currently with a partner for 5 months and she’s great, however I keep thinking of a past partner who came back into contact with me and I think I may still have feelings for that girl … What should I do?
8. August 2015
Figure out why you’re thinking about the past. Did you truly move on before you entered something new?
I recently got back in touch with my ex after 2 months of being together to ask him whether he wanted the stuff back he gave me because obviously I don’t want them and I don’t want to look as though I’m a golddigga or something. He got me an iPhone, an mk bag and an Armani purse. As nice as they are and I appreciated him getting them for me I just don’t think I can keep them cos I’ll be forever reminded of him. He told me I should keep them and not waste such valuable items by throwing them away or he suggested that I give them to my friends but let’s be honest I’m not going to do that. I joked and said I would give it to a homeless person and he was like fine and I told him to delete my number as I won’t be using this phone anymore. He’s like if your not using this phone then give it to me cos his phone was broken in which I replied ok. Then I waited and I got no reply? So now I’m confused does he want it or not? He read the message and has been online but didn’t bother replying back to me so what should I do?! Is he enjoying me chasing after him because not once in these 2 months did he bother messaging me and I’m not expecting him too. My friend told me to leave it as it’s obvious that he doesn’t want the phone that much
8. August 2015
If you’re not using the phone plus the other items that was given as gifts all you have to do is place it in a box and place it in a storage. You didnt need to tell him your plans with it. It just seems like you were being petty & wanted a reaction. If he hasn’t messaged you back about the phone it’s because he doesn’t want it.
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