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If you don’t want anything serious let him know politely. You don’t have to continue seeing him just because you went out. It;s good he;s letting you know he’d like something serous, but he’s moving way too fast. I’m confused, have you seen each other in these 6 years? If not call it quits. You’re wasting your time. Unless you’re old enough to have a kid of your own, I don’t always think it’s the greatest idea. But the decision is yours if he’s a good person and treats you right, then go for it. You shouldn’t ignore red flags, if you know he’s a flirt you must understand that it is a part of his nature to be inappropriate with other women. The thing with this scenario is when he does it, he’s actively telling women he does not respect his relationship or you. So why would they? If you believe it’s something you can forgive and work on from then do so, but do not let him believe he’s completely off the hook. Making it up to you isn’t necessary having respect for you is. You need to analyse the relationship properly. Is that how things really were, or is that how you felt? Either way, I’ll tell you what I tell a lot of women. You must use this as an experience that will help make you stronger, keep yourself busy and work on you. The sadness you’re feeling will pass but you have to give it time.
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