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Hi Oloni, I’ve been talking to a guy for about 4 months and I’ve found out that he has a girlfriend but he doesn’t know I know. He’s the perfect guy for me and he’s expressed and shown how much he cares about me and so I don’t know what to do now or how to approach him about what I know. I don’t want to let go even though I know I should.
22. October 2015
Nothing positive is coming from this situation. The man you think he is, is a lie. He has someone else, so whether you like it or not, you know you need to confront this and break things off asap.
Hi Oloni I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and when I first met him I lied about my age ( just one year older) and I don’t how to tell him I don’t want to lose him ? Help
22. October 2015
You really shouldn’t lie about your age, it’s irresponsible and can put people into trouble especially if you’re a minor. You know what you have to do.
Hey Oloni, so I’m really ambitious and know what I want. I’m 21, and graduating uni this year. I never really had a serious relationship but I’ve talked to a few guys and gone on few dates, I’ve recently started talking to this guy(about 3 months) I absolutely adore how he makes me feel and truly enjoy his company. BUT he really doesn’t do anything (he’s 24) and works at a retail, but doesn’t want to Finish school and doesn’t have any “goals” in life. What should I do? Keep seeing him and hope that he might change? Or keep it moving before I really start catching feelings.
22. October 2015
If you’ve been dating for 3 months and he isn’t what you want in a man in terms of ambitions, do not start trying to see the potential in him because of the other things.
hey oloni, how long would you say is enough time for him to ask to make it official?
22. October 2015
After four months of consistent dating you should really know where things are heading.
any tips on sexting or skype sex as me and my boyfriend happen to be on a long distance relationship
22. October 2015
If you’re comfortable enough watch each other on camera pleasuring yourselves. Spice up the conversation by telling him the things you can imagine yourself doing if he was with you. Get pretty lingerie and let him see you in it, send photos make videos.
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