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So there’s this guy that I really like but we aren’t official yet because he wasn’t honest with me from the onset and now he confessed everything but I’m finding it difficult to trust him but I really like him and I see a future with him but I’m really scared: he’s been asking me out for about 6-7 months. What’s your take on it? 26. October 2015

It all depends on what he wasn’t honest about and whether or not it’s something you can honestly move past. 6-7 months is enough time to make things exclusive for a couple who’d like to be in a monogamous relationship. But first you have to decide if what he did affected the progression of your relationship.

I am 21 and married, it’s been 4 months now. But my husband does some really dumb shit, too many to write down, but his recent pass-time is a Instagram he’s dedicated to porn clips, on here he tags random women in these videos and they openly talk about sex .. I confronted him about it and he basically blamed it on me, saying these women give him the attention I don’t. He says this a way for him to relieve his stress, i’m not sure if i’m just being an emotional woman but i’m not okay with him and he doesn’t see the problem because he hasn’t technically slept with these women. The last couple times we’ve had sex he talks about threesomes and anal sex, which makes me really uncomfortable. Just makes me feel dirty and hoe like 24. October 2015

He’s completely wrong and way out of line. It’s inappropriate and you have to tell him to stop his antics immediately. How would he feel if it was the other way around? His excuses are just as silly as his behaviour so I wont get into that. As for the things he says to you while you’re in bed, if that makes you uncomfortable then that needs to stop also, granted that it can be a fantasy of his and not something he truly wants you need to discuss that also and emphasise how it makes you FEEL. I would suggest you both go for couples counselling

Why does the guy always need to ask the girl out and not the reverse? Make this QOTD lets get the debate going 24. October 2015

That’s not how this works dear. I pick the topic of discussion.

I’m seeing a guy who recently had a baby. The only time I see him is when I travel to see him (he doesn’t live in London). We sometimes see each other when he’s in London but that’s not often, considering he’s in London every weekend to see his child. We were seeing each other 2 years ago on and off and decided to make a go of things again this year. Honest advice please because I feel like trust issues are gonna rip me apart. I’ve been heartbroken by him once before, should I continue seeing him or end things now? HELP PLEASE! 24. October 2015

This is your decision, but you have to ask yourself why you’re giving things another go… Have you resolved your past issues? Is the relationship better? Does he make you happy? You also mentioned you had to trust issues but never said what caused it. Figure all these things out. Right now it seems like you’re in an on and off relationship and you’re clueless as to where the direction of it is going.

My ex bf cheated on me emotionally and treated me horribly. i still have feelings for him and he claims the same, he’ll act sometimes we’re in a relationship but maintains he doesnt want one and walks in and out of my life. What should i do? 24. October 2015

Get rid of him and move on.

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