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I don’t know what you mean by ‘schooling’ but as for nagging. Yes. There’s a way to make it clear that something is bothering you without seeming like a ‘nag’. If youre in a situation and your other half does something you don’t like, wait for an appropriate time to let it be known. Sit down explain how it made you feel … However, if this is something you have repeatedly addressed they no longer become the problem you do. It’s great that you’re both open and honest with each other. Regardless of what you gave him permission to do, you can’t help how you feel and this is what you need to voice out to him. You have to be upfront and let him know that although you said you’d be okay with it, it still made you feel a type of way. My guess is he didn’t want to keep it from you even though you said you didn’t want to know. Once you’ve had a chat, see how you can move forward and what you both can do to make your ldr stronger. This is very unhealthy and I would also advise that you should seek some counselling. There is no guy in the world who should make you stoop to this level. If you want to get out of this simply delete your account and leave both him and his girlfriend alone, nothing positive is going to come from this if you continue. “Hey Stranger” season is probably the most ‘eye-rolling’ season ever. For those who have no idea what it means, it’s… ‘When you receive, or send, a message from someone you have hooked up with or had a relationship with in the past or wanted to but didn’t have the opportunity. The opening line of “hey stranger” is the socially acceptable way to say “it’s been a long time but I am still interested in hooking up if you are?” It usually takes place a month before “cuffing season”. An old flame that you’ve sworn off reappears … Read more HERE It’s great that he enjoys pleasuring you, but not when it becomes a selfish act. You have to voice how you feel, there is a time and place, at work isn’t one of them.
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