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Hey, I know the night be a very broad question but how many time would you say it is normal to argue/disagreement with your partner. Only, me and my gf always argue, like say 2 a week and I’m starting to get concerned 17. November 2015

Arguing with someone you’re in a relationship is very normal. It happens, if you didn’t argue, I’d be a bit worried. However, there’s a point where it does become unhealthy if it becomes too often. The both of you need to tackle why it’s happening so frequently and discuss it properly. Come with new ways to address issues, speak, don’t shout, explain, don’t yell. Learn how to communicate to get out of this rut.


Basically I’m talking to this guy, we’ve been talking for the past few months, however he’s expecting a child… We’re both at uni I don’t know if I should carry on seeing him or if I should slowly back away, am I really ready to get serious with this guy if he has a child, baby mamma drama, priorities… ? What do I do ? 17. November 2015

I’ll be honest with you, because with the advice I give I try to keep it ‘real’. .  A guy who has a child on the way should not be on your radar right now. Sure you can keep seeing him if you wish too, but do not expect the same amount of attention from him that you would with a guy who isn’t in this position.


I’ve been seeing/talking to this guy for a couple of months now, things are going good I guess, we’ve been doing things that couples would do in a relationship, like go out, sexual things (not sex). However I feel like I’m getting too comfortable with him and everything but I want to take a step back or something without him feeling that I’m not interested.. Basically I feel like because I’m comfortable with him he may feel like ‘I’ve got her, too easy’ onto the next one because he likes a challenge, even though he hasn’t even made me his girl yet, what do I do ? 16. November 2015

Heya, it seems like you need to know where you stand with this guy instead of thinking of ways to not be too comfortable. I mean sure you can do things like make yourself less available, but I’m getting the feeling that it’s more than that. If you’ve been dating for quite a while, have a chat.


READ: Sexpo UK – Oh What A Night! 15. November 2015

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Two nights ago, I had the pleasure of attending the first day of Sexpo UK, the world’s largest sexual health and lifestyle event, which took place in Olympia National. I’d done my mini research, but I still wasn’t too sure what to expect so I was slightly nervous. . .yes I know, me, right? … Read more HERE


Hi Oloni, I feel like my boyfriend is never there for my emotional needs. Recently I’ve been going through a very difficult time and I would’ve thought he of all people will be there for me to comfort me and help me. However, he hasn’t done so much as to check up on me to see how I’m doing; or he’ll make it about him and cause unnecessary arguments. How am I to deal with this because I don’t think I don’t take much more of this. 11. November 2015

You have to sit down and let out your feeling to him. Discuss this without any arguments. Communicating is very necessary for a relationship to work, even when things are very rocky. You both have to figure out a way to solve this problem, if you want things to carry on.


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