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Before You Hit Send 7. December 2015

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There will come a time where you are put in the emotionally conflicting position of deciding whether to text someone from your past that you know you shouldn’t really be texting. However despite the fact that it could reopen some haphazardly stitched wounds something is still avidly nudges you towards doing it. As a recovering chronic drunk-texter I have sent my fair … Read more HERE


I have been single for five years now and struggling to find a suitable woman. These days its all about keeping up appearances so I often get overlooked. I am a steady and ambitious guy -what can I do to boost my options. Please help 7. December 2015

You can try attending different social gatherings and introducing yourself to different women. Use dating apps too! It’s a great way to get the ball rolling. There are a lot women out there who would love to meet you, go find them!!


Hi Oloni. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 5 years now. He’s 21 and I’m 20 and I can’t see myself with another person. I love him so much but the last year I’ve been feeling that all he’s interested in is sex. He used to be romantic, you know the whole date night thing, calling me randomly just to talk to me but now, I feel like we’re just friends with benefits. I’ll call him upset, trying to speak to him about what’s wrong but then he’ll laugh tell me the way I feel is stupid the. Question wether I’m on my period coz apparently that’s the only time a woman can be angry. I honestly just feel like he doesn’t care about me any more. I’ve asked him numerous times if he still wants the relationship and he says yes but I can tell he doesn’t. He’s the only person I’ve been with intimately, the only person I’ve ever loved and I can’t take the way he’s been treating me. I’m starting to think that I’m crazy and stupid and that everything is fine but I can’t shake of the feeling that our relationship is coming to an end. What do I do now? 7. December 2015

You can try having a conversation about how you feel in the relationship instead of asking if he wants to continue on with it. He’s already said yes, so all that’s left is for you to share your worries on the way everything is heading. Try using the examples that you explained to me. If this doesn’t help, perhaps you’re better off alone. Being together for a number of years does not mean anything if you’re unhappy


What can I do too get my boyfriend too start appreciating me, I litrally do so much for him and it’s like he doesn’t see it. Right now my plan is too ignore him but I think that’s a bit petty and can backfire.. What should I say or do 7. December 2015

You can’t force someone to appreciate you, it’s hurtful it’s upsetting, but you can’t. If he doesn’t see your kindness then it’s best to find someone who will.


READ: 9 Things You Should Probably Stop Saying To People In Long-Term Relationships 30. November 2015

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Being in a happy long-term relationship will always have its perks, but I’m so tired of seeing blogs on what not to say to single people. What about US? We get asked questions we too don’t know how to answer and… Read more here


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