“Behind every cute girl on Instagram is a guy like me, and a brick wall”

Watch this hilarious skit directed by Jeff Houghten. The two minute video shares some of the funniest scenarios every Instagram husband or boyfriend can relate to. From stopping randomly to take photo of his and her shoes. To being told off for ..read more HERE

First things first. You’re coming across as a relationship hopper. ‘Who can love me more?’ is the vibe I’m getting from your question. If something isn’t working out, you don’t return to keep watching it fail. I’m worried the new guy could be accidentally become a rebound and if he is great for you will things really work out properly, especially as you clearly haven’t moved on from your ex? If you’re sure you want to go for the new guy, then cut off your ex and take things very slowly with the newbie.

It really does depend on the nature of the relationship. Was he your boyfriend or someone you were seeing? How long were you seeing each other for? I always encourage clients to try as much as possible to keep themselves busy. This helps take your mind of the hurt or even reminiscing. Getting over a guy is never easy. Fact. But you have to figure out new ways to occupy your time to clear your mind.

You need to figure out where these feelings have started coming from and why. It’s natural for you to love the mother of your child, she held something you both created for 9 months. But if you’re developing romantic feelings for someone else it isn’t fair to the person you’re in a committed relationship with. Give it some time to make sure these aren’t temporary emotions. If it isn’t, I’d suggest you have an honest talk with your girlfriend and let her know your heart is elsewhere.

You need to have a conversation with him and discuss this.