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Hi Oloni, you’re really beautiful. 1. June 2016

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Hi,oloni do you think there’s any legit reason why your boyfriend shouldn’t compliment you? I mean sometimes you just want to hear you look “beautiful” mine doesn’t and it’s annoying sometimes. What do you suggest ? 1. June 2016

Hey! There isn’t really a good reason. Have a chat with him.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, been with my guy 5 years and we have a kid, we live together and argue basically every other day, he also cheated on my whilst I was on holiday and my dad was sick in hospital he actually persuaded me to go even though I didn’t want to. I found out by randomly checking his phone whilst he was asleep and I saw all sorts of stuff, I forgave him it’s been a while now, but I recently checked his phone and history of him deleting messages on his Facebook and messages from girls, what should I do, I’m tired I have no social life anymore I’ve gained weight and feel so insecure about myself. Please help 1. June 2016

Hey love, if your boyfriend is constantly cheating on you or entertaining other women I’m a firm believer in leaving these situations. You clearly don’t trust him and I don’t blame you he’s not to be trusted. Never settle for an unhappy relationship. If you ever want to talk about this, book a call with me here: https://simplyoloni.com/product/private-scheduled-call-session/

Oloni

Hey Oloni ! My boyfriend is a really good guy and he treats me like a queen. Everything is going well in the relationship so far except one thing. He is a virgin and wants to wait until marriage but I am not and I believe sex can bring a couple closer in a relationship. I respect his wishes but I feel like at some point I just will really have the urge to want to have sex. I’ve thought about having a side dude but I feel like that might be disrespectful and I love him too much to hurt him ! What should I do ? 1. June 2016

Hey hun, whatever you do please do not go looking for sex outside of you commitment, it’s wrong and very disloyal. I do agree that sex can bring a couple closer and he probably feels the same, but would rather wait to take that next step when he’s married. Have a conversation with him, then have one with yourself. If you feel like sex is important to you, you might need to reconsider this relationship.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, i’m really struggling. I’m 18 nearly 19 and got involved with a boy that was no good for me, cheated lied emotional abuse etc. We’ve been on/off for around 2 years now and last year he got me pregnant and i had to have an abortion. Stupidly I took him back early this year but it was over again within a month, found out i was pregnant again, unfortunately miscarried around a month or so ago. Told him recently when I felt like I was ready and he ignored all texts or communication I attempted. I’m so disappointed and hurt, I just want to know I can move on and be happy and forget about this lowlife!! Please help 1. June 2016

Wow girl, I’m so sorry to hear about what you’ve been through and I really don’t think this is something can be resolved in a single reply. So if you can, pick up the phone and make a booking with me through here: https://simplyoloni.com/product/private-scheduled-call-session/

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