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Hi Oloni, what advice would you give to someone whos boyfriend left them for an ex? I’m finding things so difficult, especially seeing her post photos of them two together, he’s also blocked me on everything for no reason. I’ve never felt more betrayed in my life, I gave him my all and he still went back to the girl who cheated on him. I would really appreciate any advice you have! 7. June 2016

I’m so annoyed and irritated for you hun, but the best thing you can do is allow time to heal this situation. She probably made him block you on everything, because if he can leave you for a cheating ex, he might try and worm his way back. It happens, some men go back and forth between women and it’s disgusting. Be glad you found out what type of person he is before things got even more serious, you had a lucky escape. Keep yourself busy and true happiness and loyalty will find its way to you.

Oloni

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Hey Oloni. I gave a blow job to a guy and swallowed but his sperm was bitter. why do you think that is so? You are doing an amazing job. God bless you. 7. June 2016

It’s his diet. The saying ‘you are what you eat’ really is true. So if he eats terribly, that’s exactly how he’ll taste. This reminds me of Sex and The City when Sam, who enjoyed giving blowjobs hated the taste of her partners spunk. Just tell him to eat more fruit and you might see a change.



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Hey Oloni, I thank God there is someone like you. Just having someone to talk to confidentially actually helps people relieve their stress x 7. June 2016

Thank you!! 🙂 x


Hi Oloni. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Everything was good and going really well in the beginning. Recently we have been arguing a lot and when we argue he decides to block my number and not speak to me for weeks. Emotionally I really can’t handle it but he says that he gets results from it so he will continue to do it. How can I stop him from doing this?? 7. June 2016

Not speaking for weeks is not the best way to handle things if you’re commited to each other seriously. If you’ve brought this up with him already, it’s up to you to decide whether you can continue to stay with him if this is how he goes about disagreements.

Oloni

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Hi Oloni, I could really use your advice. I’ve been with my bf for 5-6 months. I am becoming frustrated because Im not being heard. In the beginning the sex was better& more frequent time went on, life became stressful for us both and now we barely have sex,maybe 1- 2x in a month&when we do have sex,it’s quick and leaves me unsatisfied. I’ve already talked to him about it more than once & he’ll say things like “Idgas go out and fuck other guys if I don’t please you” or you “youngins always think about sex,I don’t care to have sex like that” ..he’s 5 years older than me& swears he’s old,he’s 29 & I’m 24. However it’s not just about the sex it’s the intimacy and physical connection, I don’t need it everyday although it is preferred. I’ll settle for once or twice a week(he said that’ll he’ll try it &never did). I’ve tried initiating multiple times .. That failed. I’ve tried the talking + foreplay and oral and that failed. I see his actions as selfish based on his responses and I told him that. However,I understand his situation and I know he is stressed so maybe that’s taking his toll on his libido. he’s a very giving man but I just need to know what else can I do because I want this to work. 2. June 2016

Hey dear! This is a very common problem that a lot of couples go through. When you’re stressed with work you really just want to hit the sack as your libido does decrease. You also rarely find time to get it on. I’m glad to know you’ve spoken to him about it, that was the first step.. the only thing is he’s not doing what you both discussed.

This has nothing to do with age as 29 is still very, very, very young lol! If you’re in a sexual relationship with your partner.. you want sex, it’s that simple. You’ve explained that all you’re after is once or twice a week  with a better connection..and I do feel like you should be able to compromise in that aspect. TIP: Have you ever tried spicing your love life outside of the sheets? Getting him so hot and bothered that he just can’t wait to see you? I’m talking about sexting or sending random nudes. You don’t always have to wait till your beside each other to heat things up.

I was thinking about suggesting a sex therapist but re-read your first line where you said ‘5-6 months’ .. so instead what I will say is, bring it up again and if you see no changes understand that you’re both probably not sexually compatible.

Oloni

 


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