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Lol hey love! Ahh this is so weird. I want to say I don’t see the harm in telling him, but then at the back of my mind I’m also thinking ‘these guys have no ties and you won’t gain anything positive by telling him’. It’s entirely up to you in a sense.. if it’s something that makes you feel comfortable by sharing then go for it especially if it;ll make you feel better. Oloni Hey girl, I understand your concerns and it does make sense as to why you feel a bit bothered. You can be friends or cordial with an ex, but I think there should be a sort of limit on how often they exchange words. It’s almost as if they have unfinished business. Talk to him about it and explain that it bothers you, someone who is ready to move on with someone else will not have an old flame calling constantly. Find out what’s up! Is he till feeling her? Because women will only react to how a guy treats them. If she’s comfortable enough to call at whatever time of the day, it’s because he’s allowed her to feel that way. Oloni Hey dear, your boyfriend sounds like he’s insecure and coocoo. Hes being controlling and shouldn’t ever put you such a position. Does he expect you to make friends with people who are strictly in relationships? He’s being unfair and you need to draw the line here and talk about it with him. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you stop living your life with your friends especially if it’s not disrespecting your relationship. You’ve only been together for nearly a year and the red flags are popping. Don’t ignore them! Oloni I answer questions when I get a chance to and have thousands literally sent in. I’m not paid to answer dilemmas on my site I do it out of choice, if your question is that serious, you’d know the alternative way to contact me, which is by booking a call here http://simplyoloni.com/product/private-scheduled-call-session/ Enjoy your day Oloni Hey hun, I’m so sad and sorry to hear what happened. From the moment you said no to any other sexual act and he continued it became rape. It’s good you’ve spoken to a close friend of yours, but I would advise you go the police as quick as possible. You shouldn’t feel dirty or slutty dear, you didn’t do anything. He took advantage of the situation and should be punished for it. I really do hope you take my advice and if you’d like to talk about it more feel free to email me simplyoloni@gmail.com Oloni
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