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Hey Oloni. What type of sex toy do you recommend as a first for a couple who have never used them before and why? 10. July 2016

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Hey Oloni I’m in a really broken place right now and I don’t know what to do. A while ago I fell pregnant with my boyfriend at the time and I ended up having an abortion which was so hard on me mentally and till this day I cry when I think about it. Since I broke up with my ex we’re still been sleeping together and I’ve just found out I’m pregnant by him again. I don’t know what to do and I’m so scared about it to. Any advice on what you would do in this situation? 10. July 2016

Hey hun, I know you sent this message a couple days ago, so I apologise for only responding now. I know the position you’re in must be tough, but you’re going to have to tell him, as you’re both involved, you didn’t get into this position on your own. I think you should also see a GP and and decide carefully on what you want to do. If possible speak to family who you trust and perhaps a very good friend for support. I’d also suggest you speak to a professional about your situation so you can make the right decision for yourself physically and mentally. If you ever need a chat, you’re more than welcome to send me an email privately. simplyoloni@gmail.com  – Sending lots of love, girl stay strong!x

Oloni


Hey Oloni, so I’ve been talking to this girl for about 2 months now really taking it slow as we’ve both come out of very long term relationships but she has been single a lot longer than me but anyway, we met up for the 1st time after the first time we met at a party and it was great, at this point I made it clear I’m into her and she said she was too. The next day we linked up again for pride as planned previously, she kissed me but it was a statement because it was around all my friends and what not. Now it seems since that day she’s a lil quiet, barely responds to stuff. I get that she’s a busy woman but I’m getting worried as she did it again today. Would really love for you to shed some light on this one. Thank you 10. July 2016

Hey hun, it sounds like she could either be busy or losing interest. Simply put however, you need to talk to her and see where her mind is at, after that judge what she says with her behaviour towards you.

Oloni


Hi Oloni, me and my bf have regular sex however there’s a bit of a problem…everytime we have sex he and I go for 5-7 rounds but I don’t ever have a orgasm at all or even near… I really don’t wanna have to ‘fake’ an orgasm because I think it’s stupid. What can I do? Help! 10. July 2016

Hey love, you might need to switch up things in the bedroom for example.. longer foreplay, different positions, new themes, toys, etc. You need to find out what makes you orgasm also, clitoral or vaginal penetration.

Oloni


Hi Oloni, my boyfriend doesn’t believe in performing oral sex on a woman but expects me to give it to him. I don’t want him to do anything he isn’t comfortable with but I also don’t think it’s fair that he expects it from me. How do you think I should approach this situation? 4. July 2016

Eeek hey love, I know this is annoying but you MUST talk to him about it and explain how it makes you feel. You could come up with a few suggestions too. When I worked in a sex store I’d always encourage the men to buy flavoured lubricant to help enjoy the experience more with their lovers. You could do that and see if he’s open to it. If not, let it go and understand you might not be sexually compatible. You either stay and deal with it or leave, but you can’t force him.

Oloni


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