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I asked my boyfriend to get tested and he’s making such a big deal out of it. He thinks I don’t trust him but that’s not essentially true! 19. July 2016

Trust or not, please do not sleep with his ass again till he gets tested. If there wasn’t an issue he’d do it without a debate. Make sure YOU also get a sexual health test and provide him with the results.

Oloni

Oloni I bought your bullet how can i bring it to a family holiday without them seeing e.g customs/ 19. July 2016

Thank you so much for buying it! I know you’ll enjoy it. My advice to this is to pack in your suitcase and you’ll be fine.

Oloni

Hi oloni, I’ve been with this guy for a little over a year and there is still no official title. We are serious and exclusive to each other but whenever I mention the title he says he’s not ready or is uncomfortable with titles. Advice from most of my friends is that they would have left by now so I need a fresh view. I don’t plan on leaving because I do love him, I just need some advice on how to approach the conversation so he understands my viewpoint? 13. July 2016

Hey darling, if you don’t plan on leaving then my opinion does not matter. You have already made up your mind, like him. He’s not into titles as he said so you might as well stop asking , it’s been a year. Nothing is changing

Oloni

Hi I was seeing this guy for about 3 months, it was really intense and we was just about to officially become a couple. Then the girl he was seeing before me got back in touch. He’s now decided to give things a try with this girl despite still telling me that he still has feelings for me. I’m really having a hard time letting go. It’s making me ill, iv barely slept & haven’t slept for a week straight. He came to talk to me a few days after he made the choice & we ended up having sex 3 times & now I feel stupid. How do I move on from this? 13. July 2016

Hey darling, I’m so sorry to hear about what you’re currently going through it’s clear you had very strong feelings for this guy. My advice is to treat this as a break up, allow yourself to heal from this and try not to contact each other again. You’re allowed to cry but you’re also allowed to learn from this and find things to keep yourself busy to help you move on. I know you explained it was intense but it was only 3 months, be thankful it wasn’t longer! Time really does heal in these cases and I’m sure you’ll be fine.

Oloni

Hey Oloni! I was wondering how I can make fingering pleasurable for myself. I like it when others finger me, yet when I finger myself I feel no type of pleasure. I’ve tried imagining that my fingers were someone else’s and I have tried pairing it with clitoral stimulation. Neither of those seem to do the trick. Could it just be a me thing? Thanks for responding! 11. July 2016

Hey love if fingering isn’t doing much for you check this out!

Also, I wrote a blog recently about masturbation that might help. Check that here

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