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Hey love you need to see a sexual health nurse and if you’ve been before, keep going back till your problem is resolved. I would however suggest you don’t use any type of products on your lower half till your infection is sorted out. Oloni Hey love, I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve been through. This has definitely been a hard year for you and I can’t imagine how you feel or what you’re going through. I know you must be hurt and upset with how this relationship is going, especially when it’s something you really want, but hun when a guys says he doesn’t want to commit, you have to move on. It’s easier said than done, especially if you’ve invested so much of yourself, but there isn’t any other way around it. This relationship that you both have has turned into a codependent one and it’s extremely unhealthy. You deserve so much more. I think speaking to a councillor or a therapist might be something you should consider, especially due to the terminations you mentioned. See a GP or perhaps a nurse who can help and refer you to one suitable. Don’t do anything like ruin his life.. as this will change nothing. You need to be around friends and family who love you, you need to keep yourself busy, you have to detach yourself away from him as the longer you stay the harder it will become for you to leave. Also, most importantly give yourself time to heal. Oloni You need to be honest and tell him how you feel sexually. How did you even end up in a relationship with someone that doesn’t give your vagina butterflies? As I said, be honest and if you still can’t find yourself getting into it, this guy might not be for you. Oloni I understand your concerns, especially if you’ve been arguing for a bit. 5 months isn’t too bad, but everyone is different. You have couples who’ll wait a year to meet the rents (depending on where they live) and you have couples who’ll wait a month before the wedding day. It’s all about what works and happens naturally. I do think you should have a chat with him. It seems like he’s just trying to make you feel welcomed and perhaps even show you off, which isn’t really a bad thing. Talk to him and explain you’d rather work on the foundation of your relationship before meeting his parents. Oloni Thank you 🙂
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