You seem perplexed! Perhaps you like the idea of him, but don’t actually want him… However, I think you should spend more time with this guy so you can figure out what your heart truly wants. I wouldn’t worry about the other attention he gets, he’s single, remember that.

Oloni

A friends ex is always off bounds. It’s the code everyone and their mama knows. If you do choose to act on it, just understand there’s a high chance you will lose your mate. Before you make a decision figure out who is more important. If you’re 1000% sure he’s worth it, explain how you feel to her before telling all your other friends. Do it over the phone or in person, not text!

Oloni

Hey hun, the thing with orgasms is that they come in a variety of different outbursts, different stages of excitement & certainly many body reactions. I always say that not all orgasm are identical but it’s not a fact. Unless you’re ready to have sex I wouldn’t worry too much as the real thing could have a total new reaction. Carry on learning more about your body and when you get to that stage of actual sexual intercourse see what happens then. You have nothing to worry about.

Oloni

Thanks girl!! Okay, well it seems like he’s not as into you as you are with him. You were ready to BOOK a ticket & he started acting funny? That’s a red sign. I know you know so too, so don’t ignore it. Believe what he’s shown. His messed up phone isn’t an excuse to his reaction, back away before you fall in even deeper.

Oloni

Hey girl, instead of focusing on finding a boyfriend. Why not focus on dating first? I’m glad that you have a good career and you’re independent, but what else do you bring to the table? List down what makes you amazing and why any guy would be lucky enough to date you. Also list down what you’re searching for in the opposite sex and become an active dater. After work find events to go to where you can meet other singles, use dating sites, apps.

Oloni