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Have a conversation with him and tell him what’s going through your head. Oloni Wow! Hey hun, I’m so sorry to hear about what you’re going through, especially on your own. Right now I’d tell you not to focus on the guy you were dating because he sounds irresponsible and very insensitive, especially for ghosting out on you like that. I’m guessing you’re from the States so did some research on what you can do in terms of money. Depending on how far gone you are the cost does vary, however you can find a clinic that will allow you to set up a payment plan, instead of paying the whole sum at once. Another option is to find a city that has an abortion fund. Abortion funds is a group that has been set up to help women who can’t afford the procedure. Read more here I hope you get all the help you need! Make sure you do more research and speak to someone you trust who can guide and give you that emotional support. Oloni Oh lord! Now this, this is a dilemma and a half. I personally do not think you’ve done anything wrong. You expressed that you’d want your child to have a similar complexion to you, which you’re allowed to do. What mother doesn’t want their child to resemble them? The thing is, a lot of time, the opposite of what you were talking about with your friends is more glamourised – something they’re probably too ignorant to understand (in terms of having a darker skinned child) – I seriously believe his in laws are looking for a reason to be mad and feel discriminated against and this triggered them. Your husband needs to remember YOU’RE carrying his child and sharing his last name, so unless you have blatantly disrespected his family this is a battle he needs to put to rest. As for names? You’re going to have have a conversation about that and come to some sort of compromise. Oloni READ: Should You Keep Dating A Guy You Are Not Sexually Compatible With? Tell him? He’s your best friend. Oloni Why are you still with him if he makes you feel all these things? Either have a conversation about it, or be done. Relationships are not a must have. Oloni
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