Ask me sex and relationship questions here anonymously. Please make questions as *brief* as possible to make sure you get a response. Please be aware that some dilemmas may be posted on social media platforms and cannot be removed on there or Ask Oloni once submitted. Not all questions sent can be answered due to the high amount received daily. For a QUICK response book a private call here
Grab a copy of The Big O: An empowering guide to loving, dating and f**king
It’d be great to avoid it, espcially since first dates don’t really talk about sexual health. But if you are in that position use protection. It’s not BAD, sometimes people are extremely sexually attracted to each other and one thing leads to another. Oloni Give him some time to cool off, and try reaching out then apologising. There’s never any point in faking who are, the truth usually comes out. Especially if it’s a habit like smoking. Come on. Oloni Yeah, confront the issue. Oloni It’s a sign that you should tell him, when breaking up with him. Oloni This is so devastating to read and I’m sorry you’re having to go through this. You need to understand that this relationship is incredibly unhealthy and I know it’s easier said than done, but you have to leave. That is your only option, it’s the only option I want for you. Think of your child and the environment they have to grow up in. The longer you stay, the more difficult it’ll become before you’re able to walk. Try seeking help from a friend or family member. Someone you know who’d be willing to help. It’s also important that you report him to the police, especially if you’re fearful that he could try to find you. Here’s more information from a 24-hour National Domestic Violence helpline, who can help further assist you: http://www.nationaldomesticviolencehelpline.org.uk/
Subscribe To Our Newsletter
Sign up to our mailing list to read our sex and relationship features first.
You have Successfully Subscribed!