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Hey Oloni. I’ve discussed how unhappy I am with my partner but nothing is changing. I am trying a lot more but it doesn’t seem to be reciprocated. Although I can see my partner is also unhappy, he keeps saying if I leave he will kill my next partner and me. I dont know how serious he is, he’s never actually physically hurt me.
1. February 2018
Hey love he’s making you a prisoner in your relationship and it’s sickening. I don’t know if he’s joking, but regardless I think you should leave. If the conversations aren’t helping, what more can you do?
Oloni
Is it bad to sleep with someone on the first date?
1. February 2018
It’d be great to avoid it, espcially since first dates don’t really talk about sexual health. But if you are in that position use protection.
It’s not BAD, sometimes people are extremely sexually attracted to each other and one thing leads to another.
Oloni
Hi oloni, my boyfriend and I hates smokers which was one of the things he said on our first date but he was so fine I didn’t say anything. 2 years later I kept it away from him that I smoke. He recently found out and is absolutely fuming with me and I’m scared he may break up with me over this. I’ve tried calling but he doesn’t pick up. What do I do?
30. January 2018
Give him some time to cool off, and try reaching out then apologising. There’s never any point in faking who are, the truth usually comes out. Especially if it’s a habit like smoking. Come on.
Oloni
Hi Oloni. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost two years. Just recently I’ve realized that he’s been lying to me about a few serious matters. Should I confront him about what I’ve discovered, or should I just sit back and watch how each situation plays out? The lies are regarding drug use AND him, his separated wife, and money😢😣😤😠
30. January 2018
Yeah, confront the issue.
Oloni
Dear Oloni, I cheated on my boyfriend last night and I don’t feel bad about it. Not even in the slightest. Is this a sign that I should break up with him?
30. January 2018
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