This is very messy, and you’re right you should have used all means of protection. But this has now gone past that, there’s not much you can do as you’re not the one who’s pregnant. This is more than likely to have a huge impact on your friendship and your relationship, so what your left with now is how you’re going to treat the situation. Can you carry on the relationship and can you carry on the friendship?

I threw this question out online the other day after being hit on via LinkedIn, the professional networking site. Not once either three times in one week. It was something like ‘Hey Babe, nice photo. Tell me a bit about yourself.’ Pardon? I rushed to my home page to see if LinkedIn had implemented a relationship status box similar to Facebook where mine may have read ‘Single & ready to mingle with any guy who’s wearing a suit in his display photo’ and as suspected, it didn’t.

So why were all these guys hitting on me and through LinkedIn?? LinkedIn?? It felt slightly awkward. Especially as I only sign in once every few days. If it were somewhere like Facebook, Twitter or EVEN Instagram I wouldn’t be writing this. But on LinkedIn women do not want to be oogled at. We’re there to connect with those who have a similar work ethic or are in…. read more HERE

Holding out or giving it up early won’t get you a man tomorrow. Relationships aren’t what they used to be like once upon a time so understand this and be patient, try to meet men who are more inclined to building something serious. Not the ‘Let’s just see where this goes’ fellas. Try dating more, meeting new guys from different places, don’t go for the guys you’d usually date. Make sure you’re doing something different to get a different result and REMEMBER, you must work on yourself and make sure, you’re the best version you can be. It’s no good asking for a person to settle down with, if you’re not a person who’s worth settling down with. Feel me?

There are lots of online dating apps and sites to give a try, but the best way it’ll work is if you get to know the person for lets say a few weeks by texting, talking on he phone etc. If you do agree to go on a date, be safe and meet in a public space. Online dating is the very ‘in’ thing right now, so you have nothing to worry about if you do it the right way.

There’s nothing wrong with showing an interest in someone. Ask him out for drinks but make sure there’s at least a foundation of a friendship.