Woah. I think your approach was wrong, but your concerns are very fair. You should have told your man how you felt, so he could fix the situation. Yoruba is probably their first language so comes to them naturally.

Try apologising to his mum and express that you felt left out in the convos. Have a conversation with your man and apologise to him if he felt disrespected too.

Oloni

Heya! Thanks for writing in. Genital warts are a common STI and can be passed on through skin to skin contact.

It’s great that you’re getting the treatment and also very important for your health.

When it comes to disclosing it with new sexual partners, you should always do it before having sex and explaining what it is.

As long as you finish your treatment and see a nurse again you’ll be fine. Just always use protection.

Oloni

I’ll be honest, I don’t see long distance working if his communication with you is quite bad. He needs to be on his own so he can improve his qualities such as opening up and learning how to connect with a love interest.

Oloni

Heya! Don’t worry too much. Plenty of women find it hard to orgasm during sex. The male and female orgasm isn’t identical in how it’s achieved. My tip would be to try longer foreplay and to try using a clitoral toy during penetration during sex. A great position to try this would be in doggy-style.

Oloni

Seeing or IN a relationship? If he’s in a relationship then back off as you’re more than likely to be wasting your time. If he’s seeing/dating, he’s still pretty single. Talk to him and ask what his game is.

Oloni