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Heya love! You have to talk about boundaries with your partner of what is and isn’t acceptable. Being in the relationship for x amount of months doesn’t matter. As soon as you become exclusive there are things you can and can’t really do. As long as he keeps the same energy it’s all good. Call him tomorrow and have a conversation about it. I don’t get why he went quiet, surely he could have simply said yes or no. Give him some time and see what he has to say. How do you know he had chlamydia? You should also return to the clinic in another two weeks and get tested again. I also hope when you took the test you told the nurses you were intimate with someone who had an STI so they can give you the antibiotics. As for missing the sex? How can you miss anything which harmed your sexual health? Oloni Heya! It’s best to just be positive about the situation, always be honest with your partners(s) and ask that it be reciprocated at all times. Every type of relationship requires patience, so remember that and you’ll be fine. Also, remember to always communicate. Oloni He’s trying to gas you out of using condoms during sex. Do not fall for it. Men are liars. Oloni
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