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Hi Oloni, so I slept with a guy who said before that he wanted me to be his girlfriend. After our night together he completely ghosted me and came back after 2 weeks to say he was bad at communicating but we’re “cool”. Not in a relationship but cool. Should I move on? I feel like we had better chemistry before we had sex. 27. April 2024

Yeah get rid of him he’s unserious

I lowkey don’t care about sex that much I feel there are things that feel so much better than that.I feel like society makes me feel like if you don’t do all these crazy things that you’re a boring person 💀 17. March 2024

Don’t let it. It is possible to find excitement in many other things outside of sex. Experience and enjoy it

My boyfriend and I broke up for a few months and I dated several people and slept with them. He slept with one person but it was a total stranger from a bar, he doesn’t even remember their name or if they used protection nothing. I have lost respect for him, because he fucked some any girl. 17. March 2024

Get over it you did too lol.

Hi Oloni, so my boyfriend of about 11months broke up with me after we had an abortion. He said he feels guilty about killing a child and he is sorry for hurting me… We both decided on the abortion but now i have to bear the pain of committing an abortion and also losing a boyfriend whom i love so much and i’ve bonded with… I feel so bad and i need an advice from you 1. March 2024

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this on your own. He honestly sounds like a coward. It’s sad that bad situations show you the true character of som people but honestly I think you should be grateful. Grateful you’re not attached to him, grateful you made a decision you felt was right for you.

It’s disappointing but sadly life comes with people who will let us down. Keep yourself busy, surround yourself with family and friends who care about you and I definitely advise that you seek professional after care help regarding the abortion.

You will be fine. Sending lots of love ❤️

Hey sis, my husband found a flirty message between a colleague and I. I told him it was nothing and that is the honest truth. He now wants to separate and I am truly heartbroken. What is your advice? 1. March 2024

Ooh gosh now you know better. But honestly you’re going to have to respect his feelings and give him some space. Perhaps talk to someone you trust or a licensed therapist for help. Ask if he’s open to marriage counselling after giving him some space.

i do hope you work it out

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