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Hi, i’m 24..I have been seeing my boyfriend for three years now. I love him very much and our relationship was perfect. But a month ago, his father came from Jamaica to stay with us (he travels a lot). Whenever my boyfriend is out, he basically hits on me. He has put his hands up the back of my top and licked my neck. I’ve told him off and he has stopped completely for the last couple of days. I feel like I’m betraying my boyfriend. But if I tell him, that will cause major issues between us & his whole family, especially his mum, as they are still married. Do I tell? I have forgiven his dad but I can’t lie to my boyfriend anymore & I can’t deal with this stress.
31. May 2015
You need to tell your boyfriend ASAP. His actions are beyond ridiculous and shouldn’t be something you keep a secret. He also needs another place to stay when he comes to town.
I’ve been on a thing with a boy for about 5 months now, however I’ve never met his friends. His excuse is that they are too “rough” and he doesn’t wanna bring them around me. Do you think that’s a valid excuse or?
31. May 2015
I think that’s an excuse because you aren’t his girlfriend. If they are too rough why is he friends with such people?
so it’s been 6 months that i have been talking to this guy. i really do like him. tbh he isn’t the problem, i am. he tells me that i can’t communicate, my replied are rubbish and that im always moody. i understand that, i really do. I’ve tried to change it but it’s not working out. the reason so be it is because i don’t feel comfortable as i use to when I’m talking to someone. my guard is so up that when he tells me he misses me, i just saw thank you, not I miss you back. all I’m asking from you Oloni is how I could get comfortable with him because I am really trying and it’s not working out.
31. May 2015
I would have to see more of the conversations to help solve this properly. But if you don’t feel comfortable, then you don’t.. this isn’t a feeling that can be forced, especially if it’s been over 6 months.
A while back, I was sexually assaulted. It took me a while to stop thinking about it, but eventually I did. However, I’ve recently started to date this guy, and I feel like what happened in the past is affecting us. Whenever we’re making out, I can’t stop thinking about what happened and I feel like it’s affected my sexual drive. I rarely feel turned on anymore. What do i do?
31. May 2015
Hey dear, this question is more suitable for a therapist. Please do go out & make sure you seek one who will be able to help you with this question.
How long would you say is the right amount if time to go on a date with someone after you’ve broken up with your ex?
31. May 2015
3 months is the rule in the dating world from what i’ve been taught. But if you’re ready and you know it’s not a rebound, do your thing.
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