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Hey, ive been with my bf for 3 years and have just recently found out that he has another gf (about 8months together ). He doesnt know that I know and i really love him. But this has devastated me. How do I confront him about it and move on?
22. May 2015
You pull him up on it and tell him what you found out. I know this must really hurt, but before you discuss this with him please make sure you’ve already made up your mind about what you’re actions are going to be. Will you need space from him, or has dis disloyalty hurt so much that you can’t possibly carry on with the relationship?
Hi Oloni. I been seeing this guy for 2 years now we are in a typical situationship, as of recent we’ve been going threw some really tough times as I want to make it official but he always seems to be stalling even though he says it’s what he wants and I’m his future. Communication is getting really hard and we’re talking less frequently and we see each other like every 2 weeks. Now my EX “situation” has been snapping me and tryna get in touch, and now I can’t stop thinking about him and making up scenarios in my head. I know I could never go back to him that is too messy. But what does this mean for my current guy? I don’t know if I should end it I care very deeply for him but I want a relationship not what I’m getting. How long does should a girl wait for a title?
22. May 2015
Hey, I answer a very similar questions to this in a lot of the questions asked in my eBook 100 Questions. Get it here: https://simplyoloni.com/product/100-questions/
I’m speaking to a guy and he is everything I look for, he’s funny, ambitious and my type. I do like him. We’ve been speaking for like 2 months now and everything is going well. We’re really sexually attracted to each other and on the second time of me linking him he sucked my breast, I know it may not be a big deal but I feel so terrible. We’ve still been doing sexual stuff and he tells me repeatedly that he likes me, and his actions show that, however whenever I look at his phone it’s always a girl on there texting him. It’s soooooo annoying to me and I dunno if I should even talk to him about it. Everything is going well, but I wanna know how do I confront the issue without sounding like a jealous psycho? Please help (and don’t post on the tl pretty pls) also he has given me his passcode to his phone is this a big deal?
22. May 2015
Honestly, right now? You’re in no position to comment on who texts his phone. If he was continuously taking calls from other women whilst on a date with you, then I’d say you can say something. But he can’t controls who texts him, even if it is numerous women. The guy you’re dating/linking/seeing is not in a relationship with you.
Hey Dami, it’s my anniversary tomorrow and I want to surprise my babe, any ideas on what I should do?
22. May 2015
Happy Anniversary. I have no idea if you’re male or female, so I’ll say the theatre and dinner.
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