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Hey Dami, so there’s this guy that I’ve liked since the end of my freshman year in high school, and at the time nothing serious really happened between us. He’s now in college, and I’m about to enter college. He recently brought up the subject of being friend with benefits, but I actually have feelings for him. I just don’t know if he feels the same, and I’m scared to even ask and make myself look dumb if he doesn’t feel the same. I just want to know how he feels about me before I go off to college, so I won’t wonder “what if” while I’m gone.
20. May 2015
Don’t bother asking how he feels about you it’s clear, men can be stupid, but they are not THAT stupid. Is he attracted to you? Yes, does he want anything more than great sweaty sex? No. Does he like you? Not enough, to ask to be friends with benefits and not even a date.
are you doing your phonecalls today? for relationship advice? x
20. May 2015
Nope.
Hey, my boy friend and I are going on holiday soon and we’re both trying to celibate and wait for marriage however how I think I want to give myself to him. How do I do this without him feeling bad? I don’t want him to think that I thought he only took me on this holiday to sleep with me, plus if we do sleep together, does it mean we have to continue sleeping together?
20. May 2015
How you choose to continue having sex is up to you both. Speak to him.
I’m speaking to this guy, & everything is going fine so far, however I’ve heard a lot of rumours about him having a girlfriend & sleeping around with a few girls in my uni, he also cheated in the past. I have confronted him about all of this & he denies having a girlfriend but admitted to cheating in the past, I know he also slept with one of my friend (not close friend) a few years ago, he’s a really nice guy but I’m really not comfortable with all of the information I know & every time we are together it feels so wrong & I’m also hiding the fact that I’m talking to him from my friends cause I know they wouldn’t approve, he promised that he’s changed and that he wants to be with me, but I really don’t know what to believe?? Help me plss x
20. May 2015
If you don’t feel comfortable with this guy, the relationship you’re trying to build will not work. You’re not even together yet and you feel this way.
If a the father of my child allows his girlfriend to disrespect myself and his own child on social media what do I do? Do I act like a crazy baby mum or do I leave it to God? For someone who is well known on social media should he be allowed to get away with this?
20. May 2015
Get off the internet and talk to the father of your child. Nothing ever gets resolved online.
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