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You either tell him again and find a way to make it work or leave if it the situation doesn’t make you happy. Welp. No, I’m encouraging WOMEN to embrace their sexuality and not to live in fear because of what others think/say. Do you know how many women I speak to each day who are afraid of enjoying their sexuality because they’re afraid of being slut-shamed? I can’t imagine you do. So before you take a tweet and try and poke all types of holes into it, I suggest you take your unwarranted advice elsewhere & let me stick to interviewing, writing blogs/books/mags, hosting events appearing at events (oh & that one time I was on TV.) You have to come clean and let him know, the longer you wait the worse things will become. I think you should also get a DNA test so YOU know who the father of your child is. I hope, everything works out. I don’t respond to e-mails. All dilemmas are answered here. You pull him up on it and tell him what you found out. I know this must really hurt, but before you discuss this with him please make sure you’ve already made up your mind about what you’re actions are going to be. Will you need space from him, or has dis disloyalty hurt so much that you can’t possibly carry on with the relationship?



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