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Hi Oloni, been with my girlfriend for two years now and recently she has been asking me about the amount of females I have slept with. I am kind of ashamed of my numbers but I have alway used protection (never caught a STD & frequently had check ups). I have slept with just over 200 women before I met her but since being with her I have been 100% faithful. I am seriously in love with her, should I tell her the truth? I am scared that she will think differently about me.
21. May 2015
Your sexual history really shouldn’t matter, especially since you haven’t had any sexual infections. If you don;t wish to discuss it, you can say so.
I want to get my partner a cock ring for his birthday. We’ve been together for two years, sex is great. I just want to explore more. Which toys would you suggest?
21. May 2015
A rampant rabbit cock ring is good. Especially as it’s designed for couples to use. The ears stimulate the clitoris whilst he also feels the vibration from the ring. Win win.
I’m pregnant with my second child by a different man. He doesn’t want the baby. I’ve already had an abortion not too long ago for him and even though I’m in love with him, he doesn’t love me back. He says he likes me but I’ve just been sex for the past few months. I really don’t want to have another abortion but I know he’s not gonna be around if I go through with the pregnancy & I know he will make my life hell. I will be known as the girl who trapped him. Could you make this question of the day so I can see the response on the TL maybe?
20. May 2015
I’ll do so, but first off don’t go do anything you don’t want to do out of fear that someone will not be there. If you need time from this guy to make a proper decision then do so.
My boyfriend of 7 years has a huge issue with my best friends hubby and me being friends ( have been friends with them both since school) and has caused a lot of arguments between us. He doesnt talk to him and they arent aware of the situation between me n my bf. He thinks that I like him when I have no such feelings and its got to a point where I feel awkward being around my friend and her hubby who are always together. Weve had some pretty intense arguments over it and its gotten so bad I get serious anxiety and stress over it. My bf doesnt have any girl friends and I feel is quite insecure. I dont talk to my firends hubby unless were all together but he wants me to lock him off which would mean not seeing my bestfriend.
20. May 2015
Yeah, your boyfriend is crazy, jealous and insecure. This behaviour isn’t normal in the slightest. I understand that seven years is a long time, but can you handle another 7 of his crazy attitude? I’ll make this a #QOTD
Okay last year my GF had sex with somebody elsewhere broke up of course but the she did everything she could to get back with me and i still loved her and everything and eventually forgave her. From time to time I get flash backs of her and the guy having sex which quite frankly makes my blood boil. I am over the whole scenario but when certain thing are mentioned they just pop into my head. If I confront her I know it will end the relationship for good but can I really just ignore these graphic images which also lead me to getting very paranoid whenever she is out. What do you suggest I do here
20. May 2015
I suggest you be honest and let her know how you feel. The reason why it’s hard for some couples to move past infidelity is because of scenarios like this. You’ve forgiven and you’re probably trying to forget, but right now you can’t help where your mind wonders. It’s really up to you to decide what you want. Perhaps, you can give it some time and if not, the only option would be to leave.
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