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Hey Oloni, I’ve been sleeping with my best friends boyfriend and now I just found out I’m pregnant. I don’t believe in abortions so I plan on keeping the bay but my friends bf wants me to abort it and he has even threatened me. I really need your advice?
12. June 2015
Stay away from him. You both had consensual sex & the product was s baby. Was it planned? Nope ..but he’s the last person you need around you, however you do need to let your friend know and prepare for that outrage. If it gets worst with the guy inform the police.
Hi Oloni. As a person I’m sooo independent and love my time alone, I love to be with people and I’m very sociable but I can still be really independent too. When I get into relationships or start to like someone however I can be soooo clingy & I just hate giving space, when bae takes long to reply and distance. How should I try to not be so clingy in relationships please?
12. June 2015
Keep yourself busy.
Hey Oloni me and my partner have been together for 6 months but best friends for about two years. Things are going great and I’m happy. Recently I spoke to him about our future as friends we always spoke about how we would be married( we didn’t know we would be together at that point). I was shocked when he told me that he does not want kids. I have a child from a previous relationship and he has said he would like to be married in the next two years with me but no kids )obviously my child is apart of the package) I love him and I want to marry him but I want kids we’ve spoken and he’s serious he even plans to get the chop later this year. I don’t know what to do.
12. June 2015
I hope you mean snip as chop sounds frightening. If you both want something different within your marriage, such as kids it’s great that you’re talking about it now rather than when you’ve both jumped the broom. It’s up to you now to decide whether or not you can carry on to commit to this relationship knowing what you do.
I was with my partner for just over a year, and I really did love her, infact a few weeks ago I decided to invite her to my family’s party and basically introduced her to everyone which was basically the beginning of the end of our relationship, that day was a busy day for me and my cousin that I hadn’t seen in a while was trying to tell me something but didn’t have the time to listen, but anyway after the whole introduction and party I finally talked to my cousin and he told me he had history with my partner, I thought it was a joke at first until he showed me disturbing pictures of them both, tbh I actually saw a future with her, she says it’s all in the past and how he doesn’t mean nothing to her anymore and we should work it out, I know that she means it but it was my cousin I really don’t know what to do, it’s hard for me to ignore the fact she slept with my cousin and yeah it was before we met but I don’t know if we can work it out without looking at her and thinking of what her and my cousin did, but the feelings I have for her are still strong what advice can you give me
12. June 2015
Eh why would your cousin feel the need to show you disturbing photos? Anyway, the decision is completely yours, some people can move past these things others can’t. If this is something worth holding on to, don’t let something that happened in the past screw up with the person you were ready to show off and introduce to your family.
Do you answer all questions because I sent a question on the 10th and it didn’t get an answer 🙁
12. June 2015
Nope. I can’t answer all questions especially if they’re an essay/question that has been asked in my book & on here several times.
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