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I dated a guy around two years ago, and we recently became friends…he refuses to go out publicly with me as he says he’s embarrassed to be seen with his ex, should I bother being friends with him?
15. June 2015
Please let this ‘friendship’ go. This clearly isn’t working.
I’ve been seeing this guy I met online 4 months ago and he said he wasn’t looking for a relationship, but recently he told me he likes me and wants to get to know me and it isn’t just about sex. I have trouble believing that he actually likes me and doesn’t want to fuck and leave especially since I’m a virgin
15. June 2015
He’s a liar. Keep it moving.
HELP! my friendaccidentally told me my boyf plans to propose on my bday which is In 2 weeks. I love my boyf but I DON’T wanna be married or engaged right now (I’m only 21,, he’s 23). I’m afraid he may have something crazy planned and I don’t wanna let him down what do I do?!?! I discussed with him earnestly throughout our relationship that I don’t wanna be married until at least 24 but he must think I was being coy or modest :/
15. June 2015
You tell him what you foud out & remind him on what age you said you’d be ready. It’s better to do it asap, before he plans something in front of family and friends. It’ll be a hard pill for him to swallow, but it’s better than pretending.
Hi Oloni, basically I started seeing my male friend and everything was good. I’m also friends with his boys but the problem is he has fallen out with them and now is taking it out on me. I don’t understand why he’s decided to push me away because of it. Right now part of me doesn’t care but at the same time because he was my friend initially I’m finding it abit hard to let go. There’s a chance I could be pregnant which makes the situation even more complicated. I don’t know whether to block him out of my life or not. Some advice is needed. Thank you
15. June 2015
Is he just your male riend or a guy youre seeing?? As for the pushing away have talk & find out why he’s behaving like this. Ask to meet up and discuss. As for the pregnancy, take a home test or go to the clinic and find out asap.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while and we have a really good relationship, the only problem we have is that he lets me down a lot. We make plans to go somewhere or to do something and he just won’t show up or make plans with his friends. I’ve spoken to him about it a few times and nothing has changed, and he’s doing it so often that I’m starting to not trust his commitment. Could you make this a Qotd please because I need help. I’ve been thinking to just give up, it’s like he doesn’t care he’s upsetting me
15. June 2015
You have another talk with him, if his action do not match his words then stop wasting your time with someone who is clearly dating their friends.
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