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My ex emotionally betrayed me, I loved him very much and gave him my all. However i ended things yet 7 months later the drama is ongoing, he rarely admits blame or apologises and often makes me feel bad. However I still harbour feelings for him that prevent me from blocking him out of my life and moving on. I dont know what to do, help!! 24. October 2015

You NEED to cut him loose. You also need to figure out how you’re going to go about doing so. His apologies are irrelevant and 7 months later you haven’t realised that. If you’re trying to move on, you have to let go.


Sorry, one thing I’m uncomfortable about it my private area as it has scars. He hasn’t really picked up anything but I can only have sex in the dark and its really affecting my sex life. Would should I do? I want to make my man happy but first I need to make myself. 24. October 2015

Hey! Its very common to feel insecure about parts of your body alot of us are. You have to have a conversation with him and let him know how you feel. Try to express your concerns to him and hopefully it will help make things better in the bedroom


Hi Oloni, I’ve been seeing this guy for acouple months now. Things have been great, we get on very well in all aspects. We’ve both said that we love each other and meant it. Anyway we’ve been talking about marriage and children but here’s the problem: I’m Muslim and he’s Christian. What do I do, religion is important to both of us. 24. October 2015

This has been a struggle for some couples, however I do personally know others who haven’t allowed religion to come between their relationship. It’s entirely up to you and what you want to do about the situation, but you have to be realistic with yourself. Some choose to have their faith as the centre of their marriage so if this is the case for the both of you another conversation has to take place to decide what the next step will be


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Hi Oloni. I have just come out of a 4 year relationship that was toxic. I have come to realise very late on that i always put more effort and love into us then my ex himself. I just dont know how to start moving forward from someone i genuinely cared about. How should i handle the break up pain i feel? At work, i am so focused that i can block out the pain, but when i get home and rest it is unbearable for me. I also find myself being concerned about him and wanting to know if hes concerned about me which i know is silly. Please answer. I am in need of advice 22. October 2015

Break ups are always tough especially when they were for a very long period of time. You were together for four years and now this person you gave your all to is suddenly no longer in your life. The reason you can put it at the back of your mind at work is because you’re keeping yourself busy. One of the best ways I’ve advised many of my clients to get through a break up is by keeping their time preoccupied constantly. You have to be busy non-stop, so busy you don’t have time to reminisce for too long. What do you enjoy doing in your spare time? What have you always wanted to do with your spare time? Find ways to make sure you’re busy. Remember it’s okay to think about the relationship, it’d be hard to block it out completely, but use this method to help the pain reduce. I hope that helps!


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