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Wow. I’m so sorry to hear about this, it’s very frustrating when someone you’re committed to lies about themselves, especially their age. I’m not 100% sure if it is statutory rape, because the fact remains you had no idea that she was below the age of consent. It’s good that you broke things off with her immediately but I would advise that you try to seek some professional legal advice in case this goes further. I’m sure with proof such as meeting her in a club shows that she lied about part of her identity.. as clubs in the UK require you to be 18 to enter. Oloni You’re not a fool, you’ve just got tunnel vision at the moment. Your boyfriend is taking you for a huge ride. You don’t invite someone to stay around (especially not your gf) only to go out with your friends. What does he expect you to do, keep his side of the bed warm? As for the sexting – his promise doesn’t mean much, because his actions have shown he’s not to be trusted. If I’m perfectly honest, your boyfriend wants to be single, so let him. Oloni 6 Ways To Not Let Pettiness Poison Your Self-Growth After Cutting Someone Off You’re like 75% of women. So don’t panic! It’s very common for women not to climax through penetration alone. Majority of us cum through toys, a bit of finger action around the clit or oral stimulation. You need to try and introduce something new inside the bedroom. Longer foreplay, perhaps a bullet sex toy. Figure it out with him and make him aware of how you feel between the sheets, it’s no good you faking it to appease his ego. Nu-uh girl. Speak up! Oloni It means, you need to thanks him for his time and move on. Oloni 11 months is too soon to be talking about ‘forever and ever’ – I’m not sure how old you are, but my average readers are 23. So I’m assuming you’re in your twenties anyway.. Right, if his behaviour is bothering you the first thing you need to do is talk about it with him. Find out if there’s anything that might be bothering him and causing him to have a change in his attitude. Communicating is always the best way to discover any issues or blips within a relationship. I understand why you think he could be playing games. One day he’s hot next he’s cold, but these are the things you need to bring to him and speak on. Oloni



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