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Hi Oloni, I’m 19 and recently just broke up with my gf of 6 months, I met her at a club so I assumed we were on the same wavelength socially etc. I just finished 1st yr of uni and she told me she just finished retaking yr 13 so we’re the same age. However, 1 day we got on the bus to go out, usually I take her out in my car but we were going Oxford Street so we decided public transport is better. So we get on the bus and I clock her oyster card made the beep beep noise that child oysters make. I asked her wtf and she said it’s her little sisters oyster. I asked her to show me the pic but she didn’t. Luckily tho, when we were in one of the shops she left her bag with me to change in the changing room. I opened her purse, looked at the oyster card and saw an 11-15 oyster card with her name and face. I was fuming. What pissed me off even more was that in that bag was also a planner and on it was the her name and the name of a secondary school. I blew up on her about it when she came out of the changing room and we went our separate ways from the store. Ain’t spoke to her since. Confided in a female friend of mine and she said I committed statutory rape even tho the girl lied about her age and it was consensual. I’m baffled wtf do I do? Should I feel guilty? The girl already has a new bf Who is 17 so I think she’s moved on 4. February 2016

Wow. I’m so sorry to hear about this, it’s very frustrating when someone you’re committed to lies about themselves, especially their age. I’m not 100% sure if it is statutory rape, because the fact remains you had no idea that she was below the age of consent. It’s good that you broke things off with her immediately but I would advise that you try to seek some professional legal advice in case this goes further. I’m sure with proof such as meeting her in a club shows that she lied about part of her identity.. as clubs in the UK require you to be 18 to enter.

Oloni


Been with my boyfriend 1yr. He arranges for me to stay over, then goes out with his mates leaving me at his house. Says he won’t be gone long, then comes back at 4/5am. I’ve spent the whole night alone . Few months ago he disappeared 1 night, I went through his phone next day & he’d been sexting another woman. Promised me he never went to see her. I gave him benefit of my doubt but worry I was wrong to do that. He’s very flirty with other women & has had inappropriate chats with other women which hurts me. Am I a fool to let these things slide? 4. February 2016

Hi oloni, I’ve been with my man for sometime now, the sex is okay but he always climaxes before me and I don’t get to enjoy. Also, I don’t think I can cum or orgasm as it becomes boring after a while and I end up faking it in order for it to end. Is this something wrong with me or am I just not getting good sex, if so I’d have to leave him surely? Please advice 4. February 2016

You’re like 75% of women. So don’t panic! It’s very common for women not to climax through penetration alone. Majority of us cum through toys, a bit of finger action around the clit or oral stimulation. You need to try and introduce something new inside the bedroom. Longer foreplay, perhaps a bullet sex toy. Figure it out with him and make him aware of how you feel between the sheets, it’s no good you faking it to appease his ego. Nu-uh girl. Speak up!

Oloni


What does it mean when a guy says ‘ I’m not the right guy for you’ 4. February 2016

It means, you need to thanks him for his time and move on.

Oloni


Hi Oloni. I’ve been with my boyfriend now for 11 months, the first few months were amazing, he was really interested etc but then after that he got moody with me for no reason, wouldn’t see me and it was hard for me but I got through to him, then he started getting really serious with me, told me he loved me, introduced me to his child, his friends and told them he was hoping to move in with me next year. So I thought it was going well, until now he’s started to act the same as he was at beginning again, like he doesn’t seem interested at all and I made a comment of been together forever to which he replied ‘forevers a long time’ what do I do? It’s like he’s playing games. Thanks. 4. February 2016

11 months is too soon to be talking about ‘forever and ever’ – I’m not sure how old you are, but my average readers are 23. So I’m assuming you’re in your twenties anyway.. Right, if his behaviour is bothering you the first thing you need to do is talk about it with him. Find out if there’s anything that might be bothering him and causing him to have a change in his attitude. Communicating is always the best way to discover any issues or blips within a relationship. I understand why you think he could be playing games. One day he’s hot next he’s cold, but these are the things you need to bring to him and speak on.

 

Oloni


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