Hey lovely,

I think you need to just see how this goes, you need to communicate to him exactly what you told us. Just say you’re not sure whether this is a phase or something serious and you just want to see where it goes, as he’s your best friend he should understand and it gives him the info needed in order for him to work out how much he invests into you romantically, so feeling wise you both remain on the same page.

-Ebi

The Pros And Cons Of Having Sex With An Ex

Sex with an ex – it could mean everything or nothing – most people opt for nothing, just some non-complicated, no strings attached sex. The idea sounds simple enough but the reality is that there is still the possibility of the situation become tangled even without the string. So, sex with an ex – should you do it, keep doing it or stop? Well, I can’t give you the answer to your individual situation that’s a decision you will have to make on your own. But I can offer a few pros and cons to assist you .. read more HERE 

Hey,

Distance yourself. Forget what he has told your friend. All you can go by are his actions and right now he doesn’t seem to be all that into you, facts are he is sleeping with you, then ignoring you. He may have his reasons but that’s all you can go by. If he chooses to reach out to you then communicate, but right now you’ve done enough communicating on your end and it hasn’t been reciprocated.

-Ebi

Hey,

I know it’s important to not hold a grudge but I do think him ignoring all  of your messages and speaking to his ex without taking time out to make you feel comfortable is rude. I think before you invest any more, you need to have a firm conversation (without mentioning your special plans btw) and ask him where you stand. If you do something special for him only to find out he has moved on (which I suspect is the case) then it will make you feel even worse. He owes it to you to give you some sort of explanation and if you don’t think the excuse given has any weight don’t be afraid to go with your gut instinct and respectfully cut him off. Hope this helps.

-Ebi

Hey,

So basically you’re not attracted to the guys that approach you. Well, I don’t really think there’s anything you can do apart from maybe start approaching guys YOU find attractive, so basically try and control the type of guys you end up speaking to in that way. Try that and see how it goes, if that doesn’t work, you’re just gonna have to wait this one out or ask yourself whether your standards when it comes to looks are too high. Also marriage will come in it’s own time,  don’t spend all of your precious singleness wanting to be in a relationship. Best of luck.

-Ebi

This is crazy behaviour and I’m disappointed to hear the police have been zero use. However, you’re going to have to keep on going back to them and continue to file a report about this insane guy. Take photos of his car pulled outside your house, take screen shots of the number that constantly calls, document it all and keep disturbing the police till this is dealt with. I really do hope this helps. – Also, do not contact his girlfriend any more.

Oloni

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