It seems like you’re putting his feelings over yours because of what you believe guys hate hearing. Nu uh, speak up my love, you’re both in this and if you believe you’re getting the signs he may want more then say something, especially if you do. ‘Do you see us going anywhere?’ ‘Is this just sex or more?’ ‘Where do you see this going?’- there are 101 ways to put across that your mind, body and soul wants more than just the physical. Honestly, don’t beat around! Several relationships have started based on sex alone. If he does however say he wants to keep things strictly sexual, it’s up to you to then decide if you can really do that without your emotions getting involved. It’s tricky to have sex with someone you might have feelings for, so be careful.

Oloni

I can understand your concern, but honestly speaking anything is possible. He could be telling the truth and she may not know he has a girlfriend. There could be several things. Either way speak to him about it and share your thoughts on why you don’t appreciate what happened. What reason does a new work colleague have to call him at 11.30pm?What was so important and couldn’t wait till morn..noon in fact? Let’s not assume too much from a couple of missed calls… but girl, woman to woman pay close attention to certain things he does for a bit because as I said from the start, I understand your concern. I get it.

Oloni

Hey hun, the guy you’re seeing is being extremely selfish and clearly his intention with you do not go further than the bedroom. I’d leave because the relationship you have doesn’t seem to have any substance ESPECIALLY if he hasn’t even taken you out for a common meal.

Oloni

You’re going for the same type of guy because you’re allowing yourself to meet the same type of men. Have you tried switching up your routine of how you date? Have you tried going to new places? Meeting new people? Have you tried learning from any the mistakes you’ve encountered? If you want new results, YOU have to do something new. Act how you’d like to be treated and set your own standards my dear. You’ll be fine as long as you do what I mentioned.

Oloni

Hey hun, stop worrying so much as it’s a very common issue when having sex. Not all women climax from sex alone, there has to be a bit more such as oral pleasure, including sex toys etc. – You have to get to know your body well and find out what makes your orgasm, explore your body properly and it’ll happen. It’s also a fact that several women to not have an orgasm through penetration till their in the 30’s… I’ve read this from several places.