I think it’s sweet that his child is referring to you with such an endearing name as ‘mummy’. It’s beautiful really, but I can also understand why you feel a way about it. The truth is he’s only four years old so he probably sees you as a mother figure especially if you spend a lot of time together. I don’t think it would hurt to correct his child, so I’d advise you to speak with your partner again and break down why you’re uncomfortable with it. Children pick up things  quickly so reminding his child what to call you every time he uses the ‘mum’ word wouldn’t hurt.

Oloni

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Heya, the no contact rule is something I’ve discussed in my webinars/seminars many times.. book a scheduled phone call and I’ll go over it with you.

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Abort abort abort. It’s obvious there’s someone serious in the picture and his response proves so. I’m sure you know the right thing to do, which is keeping away from someone in a relationship despite what you’re only in it for. If you can’t ‘seem to stay away from him’ then you’re not only there for the physical aspect, it’s clearly a lot more and from what you’ve written it’s coming across as if there might be slight feelings involved. Let this one go, nothing positive is coming out of it.

Oloni

IMO There’s really no right or wrong answer when it comes to the cussing, he was out of line so your hurled abuse at him, after he was doing way too much. At the same time when you do cuss at someone you have to realise that what you say can’t be taken back. I agree, he should have just went about his business and not tried to dig for evidence, but human beings are generally nosey. Now you have to decide whether this friendship is worth sorting out (that’s if you are friends) friends don’t send friends inappropriate messages..so try to find out what the two of you actually have. Also if this is something you really want kept private ask him to keep what he now knows to himself.

Oloni

This is usually the issue with a lot of couples who are formed out of infidelity. But this doesn’t mean things can’t work even with the infamous saying ‘you lose them how you got them’. Talk to her about it and open up, I mean seriously open up. Discuss your paranoia with her and explain where your insecurities have stem from. Doing this allows her to know what’s up so she can reassure you, that you have nothing to worry about. If this still continues after a while you’re going to have to ask yourself whether or not the relationship can continue. I hope this helps.

Oloni

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