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I just need help on how to confront this girl about this situation. She came to my place and we were watching a film and all that and I ended up fingering her. After everything is done she like “oh I think you popped my cherry” and I look at my hand and see blood. I didn’t make a deal out it cos she’s a virgin so ibwas just like what ever and just gave her something to clean herself with. I take her home then come back to mine and go bed..I wake up to go toilet and I’m sat down and notice a ball of tissue in my shower, I open it and see a pad with blood. Feel so violated… don’t even know what to do lol 23. February 2016

I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for a few months now and have found out that he has also been in another relationship in the background. From what I can gather, the relationship he had with her was on its last legs. He wants to continue things with me but I dunno if I’ll ever be able to trust him again. 23. February 2016

You’re not that desperate. Drop him and tell him ‘Oloni said I should let this go’.

Oloni.


Hey oloni,love ur blog. 23. February 2016

Thank you lol!

Oloni x


Is okay for me to continue having sex with my ex (a few times a month) whilst I’m still actively talking/ dating other guys? It’s just my ex fulfils my sexual needs (there is no more any emotional connection in both parties- just sex) and he feels like a safe place for me where I can express my self sexually comfortably because we know each others bodies well enough by now. Plus he’s the only guy that has given/s me oral sex. The thing is I don’t want to have sex (at the moment) with they guys I’m talking to/ dating, especially at the early stages. So what do you suggest? Do I stop sleeping with my ex because of other guys or is it acceptable? 23. February 2016

Having sex with an ex is never a good idea if they’re supposed to be that (an ex) there are several posts on my blog as to why, so have a look. But generally speaking, I understand everything you’re saying and you might be fine with it, but what happens when he cums and you see a random girls name pop up on his phone? Or what about after you get your nut, do you kiss and hold hands after sex like people in a relationship do?.. I’ve never spoken to a client who has been able to have sex with no strings attached to someone she was once attached to. Can it work? Yeah, but for how long? The truth is, you have to be able to know yourself and be completely honest with what can happen later. I mean sure he’s the only person who knows your body for now, but sooner or later that will have to change.. sex toys are also a good option too.

Oloni


Me and this guy have been friends for a while now and a few months ago we started a kind of fwb thing. Haven’t gone as far as sex, just messing around. After a couple of months we decided to chill a bit before it went too far. So everything was going fine but a couple of weeks ago he started giving me the cold shoulder. I confronted him about it and he said nothing’s wrong, he’s just been stressed. Which is fine, but I feel like I’m the only one getting this treatment. Do you have any idea what the problem could be? ~ Confused 23. February 2016

From the sounds of things it just seems like he doesn’t want to mess around any more. Find another fwb if you’re looking for someone to fool around with. If he’s giving you the cold shoulder don’t waste time trying to figure out why. Remember FWB’s are for sexual pleasure not friendship or relationships.

Oloni


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