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HI I’ve been seeing a girl from work for about 3 months, it’s nothing serious, just sex, no one knows about us at work because she doesnt want to be the talk of our work place, which suits me fine. the problem is a new girl started 3 weeks ago and we’ve been flirting and sexting, is it wrong to have fun with two girls at work even tho both of em don’t want to broadcast it at work, none of us has said anything about dating so I’m just going with the flow,not gonna lie it’s an ego boost lol, just not sure how this is gonna pan out in the long term, any advise would be great 23. February 2016

I understand you’re having fun, but this could get really really really messy and you could be seen as the guy infamously known for ‘trying it’ with every woman at work. People talk, regardless! At the same time I’m not sure if you’re looking for a green light from here to go ahead and continue.. you’re a free agent and can do what you want, I personally just don’t think it’s a smart idea.

Oloni

Hey, I’ve been friends with this guy for over a year. We got into relationships at the same time (I got with his friend) and he kept sending me screenshots of what he was saying about me in the group chat they had like things about getting back with his ex so we ended up breaking it off. He’s still with his girl and comes to me for advice about her. We were at a party and he kissed me, we slept in the same bed and he kept trying to push things but I wouldn’t have it and slept on the floor. I don’t want to ruin our friendship but I don’t know where we stand anymore? 23. February 2016

If you don’t want to ruin the friendship and keep this strictly platonic both of you need to give each other a break. It sounds like you spend quite a lot of time with each other, too much actually. A guy in a relationship has no business sleeping in another bed with a woman and a woman who knows a guy is taken has no business sharing a bed with a guy who’s committed to someone else. You’ve both crossed too many boundaries so this needs to happen fast before things become worst. I can’t really tell where you both stand with each other, but I don’t think that’s what you need to worry about. Call him and have a conversation explaining you don’t want to ruin the friendship you have.

Oloni

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I just need help on how to confront this girl about this situation. She came to my place and we were watching a film and all that and I ended up fingering her. After everything is done she like “oh I think you popped my cherry” and I look at my hand and see blood. I didn’t make a deal out it cos she’s a virgin so ibwas just like what ever and just gave her something to clean herself with. I take her home then come back to mine and go bed..I wake up to go toilet and I’m sat down and notice a ball of tissue in my shower, I open it and see a pad with blood. Feel so violated… don’t even know what to do lol 23. February 2016

When you speak to her next tell her in a mature manner what you saw and ask why she lied about it. I don’t know her but my only thought as a woman is that she didn’t plan for things to get sexual so made up something.

Oloni

9 Traits Of A Relationship Junkie

We all have the tendency to overindulge every once in a while some people target their sweet tooth or their love for shopping while others channel it into relationships. So if too much of anything is bad for you and most of the time we can recognise patterns of addictive behaviour – would you be able to recognise if you were a relationship junkie? You are not covered with sweet wrappings and licking a smear of chocolate from the corner of your mouth or noticing that you deciding to treat yourself a little more often than usual has put a dent in your bank account.. read more HERE

I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for a few months now and have found out that he has also been in another relationship in the background. From what I can gather, the relationship he had with her was on its last legs. He wants to continue things with me but I dunno if I’ll ever be able to trust him again. 23. February 2016

You’re not that desperate. Drop him and tell him ‘Oloni said I should let this go’.

Oloni.

Hey oloni,love ur blog. 23. February 2016

Thank you lol!

Oloni x

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