If you don’t want to ruin the friendship and keep this strictly platonic both of you need to give each other a break. It sounds like you spend quite a lot of time with each other, too much actually. A guy in a relationship has no business sleeping in another bed with a woman and a woman who knows a guy is taken has no business sharing a bed with a guy who’s committed to someone else. You’ve both crossed too many boundaries so this needs to happen fast before things become worst. I can’t really tell where you both stand with each other, but I don’t think that’s what you need to worry about. Call him and have a conversation explaining you don’t want to ruin the friendship you have.

Oloni

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCYMyJ6IctQ

When you speak to her next tell her in a mature manner what you saw and ask why she lied about it. I don’t know her but my only thought as a woman is that she didn’t plan for  things to get sexual so made up something.

Oloni

9 Traits Of A Relationship Junkie

We all have the tendency to overindulge every once in a while some people target their sweet tooth or their love for shopping while others channel it into relationships. So if too much of anything is bad for you and most of the time we can recognise patterns of addictive behaviour – would you be able to recognise if you were a relationship junkie? You are not covered with sweet wrappings and licking a smear of chocolate from the corner of your mouth or noticing that you deciding to treat yourself a little more often than usual has put a dent in your bank account.. read more HERE

You’re not that desperate. Drop him and tell him ‘Oloni said I should let this go’.

Oloni.

Thank you lol!

Oloni x

Having sex with an ex is never a good idea if they’re supposed to be that (an ex) there are several posts on my blog as to why, so have a look. But generally speaking, I understand everything you’re saying and you might be fine with it, but what happens when he cums and you see a random girls name pop up on his phone? Or what about after you get your nut, do you kiss and hold hands after sex like people in a relationship do?.. I’ve never spoken to a client who has been able to have sex with no strings attached to someone she was once attached to. Can it work? Yeah, but for how long? The truth is, you have to be able to know yourself and be completely honest with what can happen later. I mean sure he’s the only person who knows your body for now, but sooner or later that will have to change.. sex toys are also a good option too.

Oloni