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You’re not overthinking. I can see why this would bother you, he doesn’t need to talk about your relationship on social media or even post photos, but it’s another thing when someone shares stuff on social media platforms as if they are not in a commitment. It’s embarrassing, insensitive and uncomfortable. You need to address this with him and speak about it. Explain how it comes across to you and how it makes you feel. Someone in a relationship, should not be tweeting, liking, faving like a single pringle. In the first line of your sentence you said ‘seeing’ so remember the advice above only applies if you are in an exclusive relationship. Oloni I don’t know you personally to talk about your character, so what I will say is that you shouldn’t let this discourage you from dating. Try going for a different type of guy. You might be dating and giving attention to the same men without realising, which then, give the same results. If you’d like to be coached contact me HERE Oloni If you’re always heartbroken you need to run far away from this man. A relationship isn’t supposed to make you feel terrible about yourself. He doesn’t sound like a catch and it makes me wonder why, you’ve chosen to stay? You have trust issues, he says nasty things to you and it’s only been 8 months. Do you not believe you deserve better? Would you not like to be with someone who treats you better? Staying in a codependent relationship can be extremely damaging. I’ll keep it real and honestly advise you to terminate this relationship, I doubt things will get any better. Oloni If you already feel like there’s no point continuing the relationship, the first thing you need to do is TALK to him. Have a serious conversation and let him know how you feel. Explain your exact thoughts on the relationship, you need to communicate with him, because even though deep down you don’t want to continue the relationship, at this present moment you are still committed to him and he deserves to know your current thoughts. Oloni First off, you need to stay way from drinking for a very long time. Anyone who acts like that when intoxicated should not be consuming alcohol. If I was him I’d block your number too, what you did was very unforgivable. Set the story straight with those who joined in attacking him, you don’t want him to be painted as a villain especially when it was you who as acting up. If you have any other way of contacting this guy, such as Instagram DM or Facebook, send an email apologising. Once you’ve done all of this try doing some self evaluation and seeking a therapist, your behaviour that night was very serious. Oloni 
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