You need to talk about this situation with him directly if you haven’t. What’s with partners ignoring each other for weeks in my Ask this WEEK? Smh. You messed up by booking a holiday for someone who ignores you for weeks, that’s not healthy. A day, two or even a week MAX. But weeks(s)? You can’t just sign in and out of a relationship when you feel like it that’s not how a proper bond works, especially if you’re not happy with it. You should have been focusing on the foundation of your relationship instead of adding more stamps to your passports.

I understand this gesture has come from the heart and it does make sense as to why you’re debating it. I would say that you should be honest and upfront with him if he doesn’t know about. (DO NOT throw it in his face during an argument if he’s unaware.)  Talk to him. ‘Listen I know we’ve been on a slippery slope but, I wanted to tell you that I’ve booked tickets to xyz. However, I am worried that due to how things are going we may not be able to make it on to the plane because of how are arguments have…..’.

I don’t think it makes you selfish if you decide not to go. It makes you smart, especially if it carries on. Next time please be very careful when planning such a gift.

Oloni

You either deal with it or leave.

Oloni

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I’m so annoyed and irritated for you hun, but the best thing you can do is allow time to heal this situation. She probably made him block you on everything, because if he can leave you for a cheating ex, he might try and worm his way back. It happens, some men go back and forth between women and it’s disgusting. Be glad you found out what type of person he is before things got even more serious, you had a lucky escape. Keep yourself busy and true happiness and loyalty will find its way to you.

Oloni

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It’s his diet. The saying ‘you are what you eat’ really is true. So if he eats terribly, that’s exactly how he’ll taste. This reminds me of Sex and The City when Sam, who enjoyed giving blowjobs hated the taste of her partners spunk. Just tell him to eat more fruit and you might see a change.

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