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Hi Oloni, I have been seeing a guy for a short time now and I didn’t know he had a gf. Well the signs and everything was there but I just didn’t want to ask because I didn’t want to destroy things with him. The sex is good and everything is good. He tells me how much he likes me and everything and he’s always saying he misses me. I really like this guy but ever since he told me he has a gf and since he met me he hasn’t been giving her much attention I don’t feel good about this whole thing again. I really like him and I can’t leave him please help me!. 15. June 2016

Come on, you’re better than this. Why share a guy when you can have one to yourself? It sounds like all he has to do is say the right stuff to have you come running. He’s committed to someone and even if you don’t leave him, he’ll keep playing about with you till he gets bored. What I’m curious to find out is what makes such a disloyal person so appealing to you? Isn’t it a huge turn off? Be wise and leave this situation as nothing positive will come from it.

Oloni


Hey Oloni! I’m really nervous about a date, it’s my first dinner date with someone I’m not already involved with. He’s much older than me (I’m 20). And I’m really nervous for some reason and I was wondering if you could give me some tips please! 15. June 2016

It sounds cliche, but just be yourself. Relax and ask questions you’d like to know the answers to which allows you to know him more. Not nosey questions lol but the small stuff, ‘where did you grow up?’, ‘What are you favourite tv shows/movies?’ etc. Have fun!

Oloni


Hey Oloni, so this is super embarrassing to write, but I have vitiligo in my vagina (just a really harsh discolouration) and I’ve always been moderately self conscious about it, but it’s only affecting me now because i want to lose my virginty to my boyfriend but I’m scared he’ll judge me or be grossed out. I don’t know what to do because well, this sounds so silly but I feel so embarrassed about it, and I wouldn’t even blame my bf for not wanting to have sex with me if he saw the vitiligo. What do I do because the whole thing Is getting to me way too much and also, do you think guys will find it a massive deal breaker/ turn off? Thank you In advance X 15. June 2016

Hey love! It’s completely natural to feel insecure about something on your body, several of us are.  I have stretch marks that I used to hate but learnt to love. I think you should tell him what’s bothering you. By doing this you’re communicating what’s on your mind so he can make you feel comfortable. I’m also sure it’s nothing to worry about and if he does make you feel any different, then this lad clearly isn’t the one for you. Please remember to get as much information regarding contraception as possible before getting intimate also.

Oloni


Hi Oloni, I don’t know if my situation is that bad but it’s been bugging me soo… Me and my ex broke up in December but we talk about once a week. My close friend and my ex speak everyday even though I told her she should stop speaking to him because in my opinion, they have no reason to speak on a regular like that. I found out they are best friends on snapchat through the little emojis that are next to snap conversations. Me and him share the same mutual best friend and my only best friend is my close friend, so it shows they’ve just be snapping a lot. What they discuss? I don’t know. Is it something for me to be worried about or is it something that means nothing? 7. June 2016

It’s probably nothing to worry about. You never made it clear if they too became friends through you, but if she’s supposed to be your close friend, then tell her you don’t like that shit. Plain and simple. I understand why it bothers you, but if she’s really a close friend, she’ll delete him as that friendship costs her nothing.

Oloni

 



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Me and my ex are currently working things out and I just found out (through his email- he doesn’t know I still have his password) that he has three different STI’s…I don’t know what to do now lol:/ before anyone assumes NO I don’t have any STI’s i was tested as soon as we broke up. I know he’s slept with girls after me so I’m not suprised but I just don’t know how to tell him I know.. Or do I not tell? 7. June 2016

If you’re working things out you need to let him know that you know he’s carrying three different STI’s. You should also make sure he has proof that he’s clean before getting into bed with him again. Please use protection if you do decide to get physical again. And keep out of his emails.

Oloni


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